Would blocking someone after they confessed their feelings be considered wrong?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[PeachyPie93]

Depends.. Like if they just said "I like you" and then the person blocks them, that seems a bit over the top for a reaction. I would see it as okay to do if the person keeps flirting with you or saying inappropriate things since they don't see you as just a friend.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and what if i blocked him after he said that he liked me?

[PeachyPie93]

If he isn't out of your age range, I think it's an over the top reaction. Especially because you complain that no one wants to date you and you aren't attractive. Yet you treat people rudely all the time not realizing that is probably your main issue lol.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i have NEVER complained ab men not wanting to date me lmao, I don't know where u got that from, i think I've made it pretty obvious i dont like men.

[PeachyPie93]

Well you complained about being single and unattractive.. my bad I didn't know you were gay.

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've never complained about being single hun, and I've never said i was gay. seems a bit homophobic assuming ppls sexualitys like that…

[PeachyPie93]

If you don't like guys, that is what is gonna be assumed. Explain how that is homophobic? lol Well you have complained about being attractive, I seen multiple of your questions. So why would you care if you are attractive or not if you aren't trying to date?

[chocolatetwopointo]

it was sarcasm. complaining about being unattractive ≠ complaining about being single. why should i live my life unhappy knowing i dont wanna pass by mirrors? life is to short to be ugly and insecure

[PeachyPie93]

But why are insecure? Beauty only matters if you want a mate, if you don't want one how does being ugly affect you at all? Just get a nice hair cut and wear nice clothes what your face looks like doesn't matter to anyone else.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc i am ugly, i grew up ugly and I've js always been. not really. i wanna b pretty for myself, i wanna be able to look in the mirror and like what i see, i won't like what i see if i see an ogre tbh. i do all of that and im still ugly.

[PeachyPie93]

Have you thought about seeing a psychologist? Since lots of people have body dysmorphia and hate how they look but they actually look fine. So are you honestly sure you are ugly?

[chocolatetwopointo]

and live in denial for my whole life? hell nah. yes i am, very sure.

[PeachyPie93]

It's not denying it.. its learning to accept it. We all get old and ugly as we age anyways.. so it doesn't matter much lol.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no its denying that ur ugly, accepting is js a fancier word. thats why im killing myself at 40😘

[PeachyPie93]

Denying it is thinking No it's wrong I'm not ugly.. accepting it is thinking okay I am ugly, but who cares lol. I think you should talk to someone, you don't want to waste your youth on stupid things like "I am ugly"

[chocolatetwopointo]

those people r js too lazy to do smth ab it. what should i waste my youth on then? i alr study a lot and im gonna get into a good school, so what should i be wasting it on?

[PeachyPie93]

Enjoying life, loving yourself, having fun with friends, spending time doing hobbies and enjoying time with yourself alone..

[chocolatetwopointo]

that takes up maybe 1h a day, still 23 to go🤷‍♀️

[PeachyPie93]

You are doing it wrong then..

[chocolatetwopointo]

what am i doing wrong?

[PeachyPie93]

Spending your time accordingly

[chocolatetwopointo]

i got better things to do

[Screenwriter]

If their feelings offend you, or they're confessing undying love for you when you have no interest in them, I'd say, admit you have no interest and block them then.

[serious]

Well, it is not wrong but not necessary either. It depends as to if the person thinks that blocking them is the best way to deal with that.

[ProbablyClueless]

In most situations, that's probably a bit harsh, but there are contexts where it could be appropriate.

[strateguy632]

No, if you feel they were too heavy then block

[PaleDale]

Nope, it's up to you. If you don't like them/the things they say, it's your call. Some guys are either assholes or say TMI

[sirderpsalot123]

You're well within your rights to block anyone for any reason.

[Heusus]

Nu, it's not wrong @ all, on the contrary it's incredibly rite

[alice55]

That's very rude and insensitive

[chocolatetwopointo]

how?

[alice55]

It take a lot of courage for someone to admit their feeling so blocking them is just very rude, you can continue to be friends after rejecting them no need to block them. If you do then you do not consider their feeling at all

[chocolatetwopointo]

what if i wasn't friends with him? yeah i dont care for their feelings. how is blocking rude? dont ask someone out if u can't handle being rejected.

[alice55]

So someone a stranger just told you he liked you out of the blue? And how did he even got your phone number if you aren't friend?

[alice55]

If he have your number he's a friends if not he wouldn't have your number that's logic, who give their phone to people they talked to one time? And how does he manage to get a crush on someone if he talked to you one time? Are you sure it was not a joke?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i have him on snapchat, i have most people from my school there and that does not mean he’s my friend. do yk what snapchat is? bc men only care ab looks. he thought i was pretty and thats it, thats men for u. ah yes cuz a guy could never like a girl like me?

[alice55]

I know what's it, it's very popular in all age groups.

Well I mean men and women are attracted first by physics since it's the first things they see
Well you said you were ugly so if he did not know you I thought it was weird a guy would say he liked an ugly girl without knowing her personality.

[chocolatetwopointo]

right. guys r desperate for pussy so they go for ugly girls too, thats why i blocked him

[LiamS95]

It's sad but not wrong

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is it sad?

[WhiteThought]

Hurtful, not necessarily wrong.

[Gaylordslav]

Nope Id do that if I could