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Is it wrong to reach out to someone who blocked you?

I met this girl at work. She was cute and attractive, so I flashed her a smile, and waited for her to approach me.

Everything was great. She was touchy, giggly, and flirty.

Our supervisor liked her. When he noticed the interaction between us, he stopped making everything easy for her, and began threatening her with her job.

I knew why he was doing it, because he had done something similar before 4 years prior.

Then one morning, she asked me to walk home with her after work, but that same morning she did something that triggered me emotionally. It wasn’t her fault, just a trigger I didn’t know I had.

It made the rest of the day awkward between us. At the end of the day, when I tried getting flirty over text, she shot me down with “I have a boyfriend”, although I knew she didn’t so I played it off.

The next day, she was a little distant, but I gave her space. At the end of day she offered me a ride home. She got super giggly when I offered her an ice-cream.

The supervisor saw the whole exchange between us.

The next day she was more distant than the last. I gave her space, but before closing I told her I felt she was acting distant. She told me she wasn’t.

Then, at the end of the day, she offered me a ride home, but the energy between us was very uncomfortable. I only accepted it out of courtesy, hoping I was the only one thinking negatively.

It got so uncomfortable, I said, “Look, whatever it is I said that made you uncomfortable, It wasn’t my intention.”

She told me how she was tired of men mistaking her friendliness for something more. Then she complained about how the supervisor had changed towards her, and told me that’s why she wasn’t talking to me.” I just accepted it and left.

The next day I just stayed away and left the job. A few days later when I went to text her, I noticed she blocked me on WhatsApp. I texted her directly, telling her that I was aware I might have com off too strong the day thinks got awkward between us.

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She texted me the same think, saying she was just tired of men confusing her friendliness for something more, and that she didn’t want to talk about.

I said okay, I appreciate the clarity and told her I understood her.

A week later, today, I heard the supervisor telling someone that he fired her because she was problematic. He told the guy to tell her to stop calling him.

* I left the job because the last day I worked the supervisor outright told me to leave.
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The question I’m left with is, Did he have any influence in her behavior?

I wouldn’t undermine her space if this supervisor hadn’t done this to me before.
Is it wrong to reach out to someone who blocked you?
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