Ladies, would you date a guy who is bisexual? Or is are bi men a turn off?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

If I was into dating, which I am not, thank goodness, then it would be a person that is totally straight without the hint of being bisexual. That would be a reason to sever a relation immediately. Why?

Because for any gender, it is hard enough to know that your straight partner has the pool of half the adult humanity to cheat on. Having a bi partner opens that pool to the entire adult humanity as potential cheating opportunity.

I could live with 2+ billion adult women being competitors but 4+ billion adult women AND men, that is definitely more than I would be willing to risk.

One is not bi because one is satisfied with the opposite gender but because one wants to try out the own gender as well. And where there is temptation there is always a way.

[Asker]

I mean, your preference is your preference. But just because I am bi doesn’t mean I’d cheat. I think cheating is one of the worst things someone can do.

[Flower7]

I would not want to date one. I’d feel like I could never fully satisfy him since to be with me he’d have to give up a body part that he’s attracted to.

[Asker]

What if the guy was willing to sacrifice that satisfaction for the sake of the relationship?

[Flower7]

I don’t feel like that’s something he’d be able to just turn off whenever he wants to.

Even the word “sacrifice” means giving up something which is difficult to go without. The desire would still be there even if he’s not acting on it.

[Nikki1989]

A bisexual woman, yes. A man, unlikely.

[Asker]

Why is that? I’m not mad or upset I just genuinely want to understand.

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

I can’t follow because you replied anonymously. But I would be interested in chatting if you wouldn’t mind sharing.

[Asker]

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[Changiis07]

Hell no