How come this happens?

[chocolatetwopointo]

when a woman is dating a man, who turn out to be a killer/ rapist (anything bad) its her fault and she should’ve noticed.
but when a man dates a gold digger, every woman is one and he only blames women and not himself?

[molonski2]

That's a ridiculous comparison quite frankly..

What about a man marrying a murderer ( who did this secretly ) , there have been many female murderers v A woman marrying a serial aggressive rapist?

Treatment would be same same.

Gold diggers are another catogery altogether , just sneaky self obsessed bitches.

[chocolatetwopointo]

the woman would be told that she should’ve seen the signs and the man would be babied, as always,

[Anonymous]

The society always tells to victim that they should have been cautious… be it a male or a female… and the victim always blames the one who did wrong with them which is right…. No one actually blaming the victim in both cases…. People who worry about you just tells you out of love that you should have seen the signs… and both men and women are being told that…. I’ve seen guys who end up with a gold digger being told that she was clearly a red flag and you shouldn’t have gone for her and vice versa….
but again i’m pretty sure u gonna argue… so go on… bark all you can

[chocolatetwopointo]

we both know thats not true and that women get soo much more shit for it. if ur too scared ig🤷‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Okay

[alice55]

Some people argue it's becuase men are into every women and it's women job to filter.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats stupid

[laraWM]

It's no one's fault. People are responsible for what they do

[chocolatetwopointo]

no shit. im saying how society treats men and women differently.

[laraWM]

Yes of course you're right but I don't know, I think it's not the right example

[katiesmuff]

Well that is the thinking of trump and his maga group of geniuses, but in the normal world the blame usually ends up where it belongs.

[chocolatetwopointo]

where do u consider that it belongs?

[katiesmuff]

Likely men in both of your examples!

[zagor]

That reminds me of a cartoon I saw where the first panel is a guy watching another guy do a math problem on the board and he's thinking "That guy is bad at math". The next panel has a guy watching a women do a math problem and he is thinking "Women are bad at math".

People tend to generalize about groups they're not part of.

[Gaylordslav]

Women are attracted to the violent aggressive man, all are capable of murder most dont.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and when men date gold diggers?

[Gaylordslav]

Then its transactional, they want youth and beauty and she wants a luxury life

[chocolatetwopointo]

and if he actually wants love?

[Gaylordslav]

you're welcome

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[PeterLegg91]

Do you hate men or something? I sense a, hatred of men in your questions :(

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure do. but ur avoiding the question, we both know its true