Would you ever keep talking to a girl who gave you the ick?

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If so, why?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes I have before , because even though I wasn’t attracted to her , I still enjoyed chatting with her as a friend , the only reason I would stop talking to her is if she didn’t take no for an answer , I use to know this girl I went to school with and she reminded me of one of the Campbell soup kids , she had the biggest crush on me and I told her I am not interested in her and I was polite about it and told her I still like being her friend, well she didn’t take no for answer and kept asking me out , so I told her to stop calling me because I was pissed that she didn’t take no for an answer , so that’s the only time i would get an ok from a girl , is if she doesn’t know what No means lol

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Depends very much on how/why she gave me the ick. A girl I'm into just called me "Bro". That gave me the ick... hard. So I asked that she never again call me "Bro"... she readily agreed; and was the one to literally use "ick" when I brought it up. I am still talking to her. Just as interested as if that awful experience had never even happened. I totally totally got over it. And it was like...20 minutes ago.

It depends. There are "icks" that are dealbreakers for sure. But they'd have to be pretty... icky.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I think they do it because of physical attraction. Men are more forgiving of mental flaws if they are attracted to the person. For example there is a guy who talks to me once a week without fail and he tells me I'm emo and teases me a lot. Yet has told me me if we lived closer he would date me and he enjoys talking to me. When we talk it's usually all day, until we go to sleep but I know we would never date because he isn't that into me, he just likes that I can give him a boner.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Boys do it all the time, as long as they get something out of it.

AviatorTom · Answer

Depends how icky it is. 🤔

OneViewpoint · Answer

No, LOL. I actively manage my time and the people I allow around me. I've booted the sister of a friend in plain clear language because she's MAGA. I told her she's useless and a conversation with her adds no value to my life. I also told her brother to keep her away from me if we bump into each other in public. LOL, he does.

Anonymous · Answer

No. For obvious reasons. There are 4 billion women on the planet. Why would I continue to try to engage one that gave me the ick? Now if she engaged me is another matter. I'm not going to seek her out. But I'm not going to tell her to go away if she seeks me out. Not without good reason. So I guess you could say even though she gave me the "ick" she does have the opportunity to redeem herself, if she tries.

NotLongKindaGirthy · Answer

Yes, maybe.

Like if I thought a girl was really physically attractive, but she gave me the ick emotionally, I might keep talking to her because I wanted to plow her.

That's just one example. I'm sure there are others.

bowenw · Answer

I probably would as sometimes first impressions are inaccurate, but it would largely depend on what was ick about her. If she was chewing tobacco and spitting a lot, that would probably be too much of an ick for me.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Talking? No I don’t think so

I’ve had the case where I slept with a girl and found out right after she was a communist which is a major ick
But I figured I’m already here so I went in for seconds

But afterwards I didn’t pursue anything more with her

Miristheiss · Answer

I hate this.  I have lived my ENTIRE life without people saying "ick" and now in the last few years everyone cannot stop saying "ick", that gives me the "ick", he/she is so "ick".

Anonymous · Answer

have had that scenario and at times, could only get a few words out. the vibe is all messed up. nope. the "ick" is some weird emotional energy and I don't do that. I want peace. Recommend icks go to therapy of which there are various methods to repari the emotional damage.

Anonymous · Answer

No, girls, I talked to during the talking stages of potentially, met at speed dating events, and met on dating apps or even in person and found out their true character, whether she was a party girl, she was rude or she was talking to 10+ other guys, I eventually ended things because if she isn't serious or everything revolves around her, yea it does give me the ick. Some guys will do anything for a pretty face but a guy or man needs to have self-restraint.

Shiprex · Answer

Probably but not eternally. I'd try to get her to unik herself surreptitiously because I am a masochist but kind to others and want to like them.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

She could be icky from outside, but once you get to know her she could be the Nicest/Best person/Friend...🤷‍♂️

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I'd find ways to avoid her for sure. If a guy is still talking to you he clearly finds you tolerable. If he goes out of his way to talk to you he must like you.

TheWombRaider · Answer

Would u Keep talking to a guy who gave you the %ick. Lol see how that looks in reverse

Dargil · Answer

I might. She might have made a really dumb statement. I might explore it to see if it is what she believes.

Kaneki05 · Answer

It would very hard for a girl to do that. So no but not likely to happen anyway.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I don't remember having any interest surviving the ick moment

Lottydotty · Answer

Takes so much to get that much of an ick. Mostly just be a meme god and sell your soul to tiktok.

Anonymous · Answer

The biggest block for me to feel sexually romantic with a female, would be if her body skin was sticky/sweaty due to the lack of getting a good and thorough shower.

(I'd really like to NOT use terms out of the "urban dictionary")

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Yea but I guess it surely all depends on what the ick is

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Not these days. I've made that mistake in the past.

bddddd · Answer

I would give her a chance to avoid a second ick. Any good person can err once.

WonderingManII · Answer

No, when a girl starts acting to me like that, I usually walk away never talk to her again.

David318578 · Answer

Is the ick because she is crazy? Is she also hot? Then I might

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i'm not sure i understood a single word she spoke. like she spoke English but it didn't come close to making sense.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never met one who gave me an "ick."

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

As @jamie05rhs mentioned, men don’t experience “the ick.” That’s the way the female brain works.

Anonymous · Answer

If she is hot, yes I would. At least we can be friends. Maybe she'll change her mind later :P

Retief · Answer

I personally can't. My number 1 ick is if it smells 🫩

Nikki1989 · Answer

In many work situations, you have no choice and you can't like everyone.

BDRick · Answer

Depends on what the ick is. Is it an STD or a feeling?

nawtee_me · Answer

The “ick”, isn’t that something that penicillin can take care of huh? Or will they need vacation’s?

Godihateyou · Answer

Yeah. I'll talk to anyone. Had a 3 hour convo with my paralysis demon. She wasn't so bad. Just doing her job. Just like me she hated her fucking job.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Guys don't get "the ick.". That's a female thing.

ohsheeT · Answer

No ...

Aguyismad · Answer

Forgive me for asking you this question, but what is an ick?

britishbby · Answer

Someone of them might tick bucket list stuff x

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe as just a friend

Jeff51 · Answer

New term for ne. Probably not

blackeagle007 · Answer

One ick is one too many

exitseven · Answer

I assumed the ick was an STD.

Eleni03 · Answer

Possibly could be she socially awkward.

robocop666 · Answer

never got the ick

Billybob46 · Answer

Yeah, if they were hot.

MasterKS · Answer

right would be bang her!!!

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

why is the smile girl on the cover of ur question

TallAnon · Answer

Cuz hot vs ick

slatyb · Answer

Why? To be polite.

MrZameer · Answer

wdym by ick?

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