Women dating younger guys… would you be embarrassed to be seen in public with a much younger guy?

Question

Tell me the age difference and whether you think that relationship has an expiration date.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If she was embarrassed to be seen in public with a younger guy , then I highly doubt she would date him , she might just use him for sex but nothing more of that’s the case , I have dated younger and older girls’ The one older girl I was sleeping with loved having sex with me but was embarrassed that I was younger than her , so her and I didn’t last very long. But she was great in bed. Other older girls’ I have dated didn’t mind that she was older and loved showing me off in public , so it just comes down to that person on what they decide and accept. I always looked older than my age when I was younger , so most older women weren’t embarrassed to be with me in public , some have told me to lie about my age if i was asked by someone they knew , which I told her that is lying is stupid to do , let alone most females’ lie about their own age all the time lol. Which to me is stupid to do , so I will tell her to just be honest , if they can’t accept your honesty then that’s their problem not yours. Don’t let other people control you and decide what is right or wrong for you , they have no power over you whatsoever, so fuck what they think or say. I have dated younger get girls’ that people made remarks about our age difference and I just laugh because they have no clue about the chemistry and connection her and I share together , so I will usually tell them to keep their judgmental opinions to themselves , Most people are hypocrites when it comes down to other peoples’ choices and decisions, they are hypocritical until it happens to them , which makes me shake my head and laugh even more on how pathetic they truly are.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

If a woman wishes to look completely and utterly STUPID then it's a " great " idea , these kind of people are not real MEN , they are hapless boys , looking for a mother figure that they can sleep with ! Its completely and utterly shameful..

The man should always be older and if not there is something seriously wrong with the pussy.. utterly disgusting , no pride , no hope , and so quick to jump ship , massive sexual issues.

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

Not so much embarrassed just not attracted to them. I don't know, it’s a personal thing with me. I want someone who grew up playing Super Nintendo and throwing a big slammer on top of a pile of brightly colored cardboard circles (aka pogs) because that’s how us 90’s kids kept ourselves entertained before the days of social media (I know we’re old farts now), but that’s the age I mostly stick to. Other 40 somethings, because I relate to them. Doesn’t mean I’m not open to dating men in their 50’s as well (I am).

DishLady · Accepted Answer

SEEN WITH a younger guy and DATING a younger guy are two different things. I’m seen interacting with much younger guys all the time. Would I date them? No. Would I consider dating them? No, and I say so up front so there’s no confusion down the line. I don’t believe in cradle robbing.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, if he's a lot younger, he may be assumed to be her son or another relative.

I once had an older woman (I guess she looked around 10-15 years older than me even though she was only 8 years older than me) ask for a friends with benefits arrangement in which I'd attend business functions with her in return for sex. I guess it was pretty clever on her part because while it was obvious she was older than me, she wasn't so much older than someone would think I was her son, buy young enough that made her look good when I was with her in public.

Anonymous · Answer

I would not date a much younger or older person because they don't tend to match up to me emotionally. I find that I tend to get along better with people around my age.

Its also very hard to sustain a happy fulfilling marriage with someone significantly younger or older. It might start out happy but age gap incompatibility will eventually kick in and cause a lot of trouble down the road.

From my experience, the most common reason why someone would go for someone significantly younger or older is because they have a fetish for significantly older or younger. Its usually not because they get along best with this person. It's all fetish. Some marry their fetishes.

Screenwriter · Answer

Wouldn't want to be seen with one as young as my son (30), but 40-60 would be fine by me.

I'd think if a man was mature looking, it would be fine. Baby-faced... well... a little problematic. But, if he was a hoot and a keeper, well everyone else be damned!! ahahahaha!

DianaV · Answer

Because younger guys have hard dicks.. ALWAYS !! I'm currently writing a novel about a 60+ lady that suddenly finds herself NOT MARRIED anymore after 40 years of marriage so she decides to go on a dating site and see what's out there. Unfortunately the guys her age or even from the age of 56 to 81 cannot get it hard but they think they can and there begins to quest to find a REAL hard on.. no pills, creams or injections. So keep your eyes open because it will be going up for sale very soon. Check Amazon

itsannalee · Answer

My twin sister dating a young guy, her boyfriend is 10 years younger than her. But since she still looks like 23 yo, she doesn’t need to be embarrassed of that. They look good together.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Even when I was under 30, I did not want anything to do with most men under 30. Most men are just big children until they reach 30 at least.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah its a flex to be with a younger man. Id be more embarrassed the other way around someone thinking my man was my dad/grandpa lol

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't date a guy my own age let alone younger, too immature. I only date guys that are at least 29.

Anonymous · Answer

If I were older I wouldn’t be embarrassed. I’d be proud. My mom’s friend is dating a younger guy and they get along great.

Anonymous · Answer

When I was about 25 I was sleeping w a lady who was about 42. Was a great experience.

Anonymous · Answer

I ended up having sex with 57 year old lady a few days ago

Petra07 · Answer

Yes but if it younger they be under 16. And I prefer women myself.

evie56 · Answer

personally i wouldn’t mind

Reem12345reem · Answer

honestly yes , that's why i don't them

KralArthur · Answer

Wbu? You look young studs?

wkhan_87 · Answer

Nothing is about to embbrased in it

MasterKS · Answer

Old woman are amazing! I find them pretty good.

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