Why are skinny autistic guys considered undatable?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

You know the answer to your own question.

Because a skinny autistic guy is far from the physical ideal for a man in most women's minds and they come with baggage, looks and emotional stress. What's the mystery? Why would a woman choose a less attractive guy who will require more effort? Would a man choose a fat autistic woman over a slim fit woman with a bubbly personality? You'll have to work harder than a fit muscular guy who isn't autistic.

Don't like that reality? It doesn't matter. Like everyone else, work on yourself. It's all you can control.

[Asker]

There isn't anything to control if women have the final say.

[OneViewpoint]

OK, go with that attitude. It's guaranteed to change things for you.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Autism seems to slow down Sexual Maturity/Social Maturity. We tend to believe what our authority figures tell us. We find out later than most that we have been told things to keep us in line. Also, because we seldom fit in we tend to be loners. I am secure. No one to disappoint. No one to misunderstand. But ultimately we discover that the world is a brighter place when you find someone to share it with.

[Zack-Bann]

You can’t change the ‘tism but you can change the skinny


The fact is: it’s always gonna be hard
You got dealt a handicap in life


But many people have made it work despite that.


It’s up to you if you want it or not

[Sal_Monella]

They often come across as "left handed" in a right handed world. They require a special understanding that modern Western women have no time for. For them, it is all about money and prestige. Skinny autistic guys have neither.

[Anonymous]

Noone is truly undateable, if you decide that you are undateable you will self fulfill that prophecy and act undateable.

[Asker]

As long as hypergamy & entitlement are around most people will be considered undatable even if they've done nothing wrong.

[Asker]

I haven't decided that I'm undatable but women treat me like I should be based off of body & being on spectrum.

[Opinion Owner]

That's not fair of them. There is something great in everyone, and it sounds like both you and other people haven't noticed it yet, but it's there. It always has been