Why does this always happen to me?

[L_Lawliet17]

It's like all the decent men are taken, the men I end up with are utterly disrespectful and want me to be their parent, and the people who chase me the most are old men. Every time I fall forwards a guy, I invest in trying to see if he'll like me too just to learn he has a girlfriend, then I feel horrible for bothering him and spending so much time on it.

So I told myself I'll stop approaching men. If they really want me, they'll approach me first. That was also a mistake. I ended up with the most traumatic relationship with someone who only wanted to be with me because my flaws made him feel powerful. But he never took care of himself like I did, and he never took care of me.

So I just stay single, but just in the past month, two men over 50 years old tried to hit on me and get my number and I'd never seen them before in my life.

Like, what is this?

[Zack-Bann]

Pretty sure winning the dating lottery at 22 is a rare occurrence
There’s nothing wrong with you you’re going through the regular modern day dating experience


There are plenty of good men and in time you’ll gain the intuition to know what to look for and stop falling for the broken ones because you convince yourself they’re something they’re not


You just need to widen your horizons, look outside of your comfort zones.
Don’t just date the same template of douchbags you’ve been seeing so far

[ohsheeT]

Can you feel energy from people if you start out meeting someone on line you should be able to feel there words when you text each other

And I know you have that title of bi polar but not sure but people I know that have it are good around friends. Just bad in business try to remember we are our thoughts so try to always ne or have positive thoughts and it will happen

[KateCrombie]

Most men are horrible… you’d be really lucky if you found one like i did

[ProbablyClueless]

It's amazing how much our friend group and sense of boundaries have on our dating life.

I guarantee that if you take time to really figure out your boundaries, you'll chase away the little boys. And I guarantee that if you surround yourself with relationship oriented friends, they'll find you a guy they could see you dating.

[Twalli]

The good guys don't stay single for long. They're a hot commodity. I was an anomaly, but I've been off the market for almost 7 years. So once a girl found me, she wouldn't let me go.

[Jeff51]

Wait it out. I'm sure you will meet someone nice.

[Anonymous]

Ahh men , there’s no hope for most of them.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

believe in yourself