Recently I’ve been noticing something, I’ll befriend someone at school or over the internet. We will talk for awhile and if it’s a guy, he will begin to flirt with me, calling me beautiful, and other compliments.
Until of course they don’t talk to me as much and a day or two later they either have ghosted me or just get a girlfriend or boyfriend.
This has happened to me every single time I’ve tried to date or flirt with someone... one of them I almost asked out before the cycle occurred and he got a boyfriend...
I finally got mad, why does this happen to me? Am I just not likeable?
So I finally told one of them why I stopped talking to them after they got a s/o
One of our chats is below If you somehow find the user please don’t witch hunt them
And I beg of you, don’t answer with things like “Oh it’s because you’re 13” No no no
This doesn’t JUST happen to 13 year olds. Please do help me, I just want this to stop, I’m sick of it
Honestly if I was around your age I would take it serious with you, and I would say I am almost the same now as back then. However there are so many factors into whether you get ghosted or not. I look for personality a lot, and initially it may look good but thats where it may turn out to be a wrong decision. Thats where it turns to a ghosting. I honestly ghosted a girl once when she started arguing with me after she got off work and started bitching to me about her job like we were already dating or something.. if we were arguing without being in a relationship, its over for me.. its not worth.. I pull the plug
Girls and boys alike are pretty immature in your years. They still are in my age, but it gets somewhat better. If you're concerned about relationships, dont be
I've learned that young love is actually dumb love for a reason... and you'll see it too some day
Yes, but even I’m still worried on getting feelings for anyone at my age 😂 People are kinda a joke. They either look for worthless commitment or for sex, both which dont last long at the 18 year mark.
I've been told that college is a fantastic place though. So ill see when I get there
Eventually with people you can just run out of things to say to someone. Also tip for down the road, when you get into highschool try to join a club or sport, it helps to give frequent contact with people that have similar intrests. And you will have something to talk about other than how boring your math teacher is.
Sometimes i'll meet someone and talk a lot for some time, but then we'll lose things to talk about and so we stop talking. Its likely not that they dislike you, and more that they dont have anything they feel they need to say.
Yeah it’s just one of those things that around our age people are more immature and don’t know what they want in life so they jump around trying to fine it. I would recommend trying with someone that’s more mature and knows what they want in life, I mean after all isn’t that why girl go for older guys?
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