If you’re texting multiple people at once, are you always interested in one more than the others?

[Anonymous]

[HawkPerception]

Not necessarily. You could be interested in one more than the others, or you could be interested in them all equally. It's more about being efficient with your time until you're locked into a relationship. If I'm not in an official relationship and we're not aiming to be together in the future, then I'm still in the prospecting phase meaning I should talk to others to find out if we're compatible or not.

[Anonymous]

I barely ever text, but I've been mostly interested in the same person for a long time now. She started out as the same as others, but she quickly rose above them. Before her, my interest was relatively constant.

[Asker]

What made her stand out to you?

[Opinion Owner]

Initially, I found her to be physically attractive and my type. What made her stand out was everything else. I saw her about twice a day, and observed her a lot. Almost everything I saw made me like her more and more, and there wasn't anything that made me rethink my developing feelings.

[DishLady]

I text A LOT of people — A LOT. It’s part of my job… so HECK NO.

[Alexa1999_]

It could be depends where you at in the process.

[ohsheeT]

Damn. Well. would like to be chatting with one

[Anonymous]

Here's the thing I'm gonna let you in on a little secret no one will admit to... most of the people i text (as in women) are full of shit. They'll give every excuse why they never text back but still breadcrumb you to feed their own ego. They want to be with me and the guy they're with. I already know they're full of crap which is why i just sit back and watch in amusement while they think I'm falling for their bullshit. I keep an emotional distance to protect myself and my heart from their manipulative ego feeding ego boosting bread crumbing narcissistic bullshit

[Opinion Owner]

If they can't treat me like a regular person a real person and not just look at my posts and texts and use that for their own pr stunts their own pr crap and can't be bothered to message me or say hi or ask how I'm doing then i sure as hell don't take them seriously and know they're full of crap and looking to stroke their own ego. On the off chance the few who do text back i have to sit there and read what they say, how they word things and express themselves and if they're giving me one liner answers & responses then i won't take them seriously

[Opinion Owner]

If they text back genuinely and whole heartedly which only happened in 2001-2003 then I'll take them seriously

[LiamJHayden]

I am more of an in person or at least talk on the phone type. Texting is okay to say "on my way" type stuff but to me not for in depth.

I do date multiple ladies at once if not official. I am interested roughly the same in each, as I would not bother going out with any of them if I were not.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's not really that I'm more interested, it's the reasons, why and what I'm interested in may be VERY different, and fluctuating, when I am conversing with multiple people.

[Anonymous]

if someone is texting multiple people at once, they're not serious about any of them. and if they were more interested in one more than the others, they would be talking to just that one person.

[SotiCoto]

I've probably sent fewer than 20 SMS messages in the past 20 years. No way were they going to more than one person at once.

[NicholasRedone]

Sounds like what happens in GAG at times and asking answering questions - hard to keep up at times lol 😆

[Anonymous]

How would you know that from texting?

[genericname85]

there's always a slight preference for one. but it can switch around depending on what new you learn from the individuals.

[virgo2267]

Absolutely. If one conversation is business and the other pleasure… you best believe I will rather play first then get back to business

[Shiprex]

That would only be on a group chat where I want to help organise something together.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I just chat with people and see what happens, no hidden intentions, I just be chillin

[MrChinaski]

Yes. But she declined to meet me in Hong Kong.

[Godihateyou]

Yes. The people that have insight amd dont text one word responses

[Vick2828]

I never text multiple people. I only text one person. To me, that's whore behavior

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thst depends if there just your friends then I could be equal

[Anonymous]

I just see how things play out.

[Anonymous]

I rarely text multiple people.

[JordansGate]

Evidently

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Yes.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope

[Anonymous]

Probably