What advice would you as a man give to women if only they would be receptive to it?

[Hardtoexpla]

This is advice for women who want to get married one day…

[Anonymous]

Character is paramount!

Obviously there's a dozen other smaller factors that do play a role. But the single biggest mistake I see women make IRL and on this site time in again is they simply do not choose a man of good character. She relies to much on her FEELS and not enough what is painfully obvious. I'm not picking on women because men make the same mistake with women. I just think women due to thier emotional nature are more susceptible to it. And this again is NOT a knock on women. Women (good ones at least) bond with men deeply on an emotional level. This is a good thing because it allows her to tolerate some of the stupid 💩 we men do. If not she might divorce us at the drop of a hat 😆 But the downside of it is, when she chooses a terrible partner it makes it that much harder for her detach from him. She's more likely to double down on a bad choice.

The REALITY is I see woman after woman asking, "how do I make him...". The answer is YOU DON'T! You do the best to inspire him. And if doesn't then you move on. Too many women (almost an epidemic number of them) think they can build a good relationship on a crooked foundation. And it never works. At some point the relationship is toppling. And then these same women will tell you, well it was good while it lasted. No, it wasn't that just the way you prefer to remember it. Because you don't want to accept where you're going wrong.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Don't waste your time thinking about your dream wedding and being a bride. Think about what kind of marriage you want and what kind of wife you want to be.

[Toadlyu]

Any ideas on what wife to be and marriage? I am not into weddings