What's one thing you wish more women understood about men, in general?

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slippery2000 · Accepted Answer

We're attracted to women. Regardless if we might find another person attractive or not, liking a picture of an attractive woman doesn't mean we are trying to get with them or trying to get noticed. If he starts commenting on their posts or feeding them compliments that's a different story. For example, if my wife has a female friend over and her friend is saying negative things about herself or how she thinks she's gross looking, there's nothing wrong with telling her that she's beautiful or that her outfit looks cute on her so long as it's in your significant other's presence or you at least make her aware of the conversation that took place and are sharing with her. If you are being secretive or not including them in the conversation or the things you find visually attractive or interesting and just doing it behind their backs, you probably don't have a trusting relationship or a relationship built on openness and security in being able to express yourself without the fear of ridicule and judgement.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That we don't value the same things in a woman that women value in men. Unlike women, we are not looking for a mate who is highly educated, has a high paying job, owns a home and a car, and is super confident. We want a woman who has the qualities that make a good mother and wife, which means being feminine, kind, nurturing, unselfish. We don't need a provider or protector; we need a devoted and loving wife who will be a good mother to our children.

NathanDavis · Answer

simple... understand the man in your life, in front of you... never try to understand all men as a whole, or worse... as all being the same

spartan55 · Answer

That there is almost NEVER some sort of subtext to our words. Women everyone thinks like they do, often to their detriment.

Anonymous · Answer

We’re not as complicated as you make us out to be. We adjust to women. We don’t think like you. You women make us complicated by putting all your emotions into your thoughts.

DJB72 · Answer

Men are more attracted in general to a traditional feminine woman than a boss bitch feminist.

Anonymous · Answer

those who tell the cold harsh truth (no matter how offensive) are more helpful than those who lie and pander to you for brownie points

Still-alive · Answer

We got emotions too. Try to be a good listener to us during emotional times too

hotman5 · Answer

that we get less attention than women

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

We lads are libidinous creatures.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I wish women understood that men have feelings too

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