Men, what are some of the things you wish women knew and understood more about you as a man?

[aquamarine321]

[Table4YTwo]

That every time you lay a hand on us it sends us 1 step closer to mentally breaking.

Our temper doesn't go away it doesn't die down, its like a big pot and every time you scream in our face it adds water to the pot and every time you lay hands on us the fire under the pot gets hotter.

Eventually all that water is gonna overflow and boil over onto you. See when we calm down the pot doesn't lose water it just loses heat and stops boiling the only way for us to lose water is if we really believe you are sorry which rarely happens.

its why tempers from men EXPLODE and we get real fuckin violent some dudes just got a smaller capacity for it some have massive but regardless the explosive outburst is always equivalent to how much BULLSHIT we have to put up with.

[StrongMale]

I wish women understood that, for men, sexual intimacy is a verrrry important part of how we experience love. Being wanted and desired sexually by a woman makes a man feel sincerely loved by her. They say that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, but I’m not so sure. I think it’s more likely that the way to a man’s heart may be between his legs!

I also wish women didn’t villainize men for being naturally sexual creatures. It’s just the way we are wired. We don’t think about sex all the time, but we do care about sex a lot. That doesn’t make us pigs, dogs or predators. It just makes us male.

[Lionman95]

That many of us aren't solely interested in sexual activities.
That many if most guys need words for communication meaning if you don't say it chances are high we don't know it.
That many guys don't speak about feelings because they have a hard time articulating how they feel and don't want to look stupid if it doesn't sound good.
At least in my experience many guys struggle with what masculinity actually means and we don't have a clear picture what's actually expected of us and who we wanna be.
Many of us use the Internet to calm down from a hard day.
Guys have traumas relating relationship, too we just might not talk about it.
If a guy talks with you about his emotions he really trusts you.
From a guy's point of view respect and acknowledgement are really similar so as a guy my biggest fear is losing a person's respect because that could mean they are not taking me seriously anymore.
That's one if not the reason why I'm not talking about my feelings, emotions and anything deeper with a person I haven't known for a long time.
It's also a reason in my view why guys behave cocky and overly confident.
Last but not least from a guy's point many women are more attractive than they think they are, but at the same time many of us guys aren't aware that they are seen as predators. As a guy I would say the problem arises the moment he acts sexually oriented on the behaviour because that means either he can't control himself or he remembered her from somewhere though being in a relationship.

[Whatever2929292]

Well... This really does depend on the woman. There are some women who do things that men think are attractive... But really most men don't. I would say maybe a fraction of men.

To be fair there are men like this too... Who do things that they think women think are attractive and aren't... But since a fraction of women do... They keep doing it

[Panzer21]

Crying makes our eyes itch, or sinuses congested, we feel like dogshit at the end and it doesn't solve jackshit. Thats why we dont like crying, it sucks.
I've heard a lot of my girlfriends ask "why dont you cry? Its good for you".
Its not good for us, solving the issues is good for us.
Crying is for grieving, not much else.

[RandomGuy1030]

Reminds me of when something horrible happens in public. Women screech and men stay silent thinking of what to do

[RedStealthOperative]

That I very much think differently. Every subject of thought has a compartmentalized place, unlike the bowl of intricately connected wire she has going on in her brain.

[Dex402]

That if she proved herself to be loyal and made standing by her man a priority, I would literally give her the world.

[jasco]

We like our alone time. We need space without you or the kids being around. Sometimes we just wanna nap instead of going shopping or something

[Anonymous]

That we love the women's ass much more than women think we do

[jengeorge26]

How to get a man’s attention

[RandomGuy1030]

I dont care what you're entitled to

[Anonymous]

That mindless noise is really aggravating