When you have rejected and/or broken up with people more often than not was it something (s) off putting about them or not just a great fit together?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Just trying to pick y'all's brains lol

Something (s) off putting about them

Just not a great fit/wouldn't be a great fit

I would say both, it's a cause and effect situation

[Chazmatazz269]

A fair bit of both. I seemed to have a fairly early grasp on mutual accountability. Some people seem to never understand that nobody is faultless in the failures of their own relationships.
I never gave the, “It’s not you, it’s me.” speech, because that’s never true. It’s you too. That’s what relationships are. You’re both responsible for the failures as well as the successes.

[strateguy632]

As a guy it was something severe she said or did. But "off putting" is not enough for me to dump... at the same time gals dump me just for merely getting bored not a "great fit" meaning no excitement.

[Anonymous]

Depends who you ask. If you ask most women that took interest in me they'll tell you I rejected them. The REALITY is they friendzoned themselves. They got close to me but never made thier intentions clear. I actually only really rejected one woman in my life. And that was simply because I felt she was too young for me. I regret rejecting her to this day.