Saw that my boyfriend watches adult movies again after I told him that I don’t like it and promised won’t happen again?

[Anonymous]

What should I do in this situation?

[abc3643]

Stop bothering and accept it.

I don't like tornadoes coming near my house, but yelling at them not to do it isn't going to stop them from doing what they do.

Instead, ask yourself WHY you don't like it. The answer is likely that you feel threatened by the women in adult movies who may be better looking than you. Don't worry about that. For one thing, you are not the most gorgeous girl in the world because, if you were, you'd be a celebrity. So, you're not. In fact, every single day, you and he are going to run into a woman who is likely more physically attractive than you to him. Same about personality. So, try not to think of it as a competition because it will drive you crazy.
The only important things are that he stays with you, is loyal, is good to you, and good for you. In essence, he loves you. Love is not commensurate with looks.

Perhaps it will help you to remember these two sayings from generations of women about men:
1. It doesn't matter where your husband gets his appetite as long as he eats at home.
2. If you want to keep a man, keep his belly full and his balls empty.

You do those two things - and don't give him shit all the time (shit like bitching about his watching "adult movies") - then he will stay with you and be content. Let him be him as long as what he does does not TRULY threaten your relationship (like gambling or having a drinking problem or being an addicted gamer).

You will find that both of you will be happier if you accept what I have written.

[HawkPerception]

Live and let live.

If it bothers you that much, then leave him. I do find it strange that he watches specifically pornos while he's in a relationship with you. That usually indicates that the sex in the relationship doesn't fulfill his desires or is lacking.

[Screenwriter]

You can tell your boyfriend you don't like it, but you cannot control someone else's choices! Is his viewing adult films interfering in your interpersonal lives?

If it isn't, and he isn't doing it all the time, what's your problem with it? Unless it's coming between your having a positive relationship, you should give up on this. He's an adult.

However, if it offends you too much, or it IS interfering in your relationship, then you have to consider whether you want to continue in a relationship with this person. That choice is yours.

[Anonymous]

I think you should maintain your boundaries and leave him. If the shoe were on the other foot and you did something behind his back that you promised you wouldn’t do, he’d be out the door.

[Asker]

He started laughing when he saw that I was upset

[Opinion Owner]

That’s not a good man girlie.

[DannyUk2017]

You should either talk, ask what is that he likes of what he sees, and maybe you try to do the same, or find another boyfriend, but these days when men get bored of their partner... that is their escape.. Adult Movies..

[Anonymous]

How should we know. We're not you. Only you know how much this bothers you. But I will say this. Nothing is going to stop him short of an ultimatum (and even that might not work). So again only you know how much this bothers you and to what lengths you're willing to go.

[RHK36]

Grow up and leave. He's not going to change. Breaking promises over something trivial means he'll probably do it for something bigger as well. Move on or don't complain.

[PeachyPie93]

Fuck him so much he has no energy to waste his time on porn.

[Pterodon]

He’s probably addicted and if so there’s nothing you can do so you have a decision

[Raam1994]

Did you asked him?

[Summeroflove]

Break it off

[Nikki1989]

Dump his immature, cheating ass.

[slatyb]

He should leave you.

[Asker]

Why?

[slatyb]

Because you are trying to control behavior that doesn't affect you. All you can ask for is his attention when he is with you.

[Wise4myage]

I think its time you dumped him.

[wkhan_87]

Stop him forcefully, maybe he been addicted.

[Asgard356]

Move on