Why does my boyfriend still watch adult rated XXX videos behind my back?

[jazzersizemfkrz89]

We have been dating for over 2 years now and I still find him on those sites... I don't understand why he feels like he has to do that. Is it me? Am I not enough for him?

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+1 y

Ok I can see the whole addiction thing, but it bothers me to the point to where I don't know how much more I can handle it, it has lowered my self esteem significantly! And he knows it, we have talked about it numerous times but still no change, I don't want to leave him, I have never had feelings for another like I have with him and I don't want to lose that! What do I do?

[ohshee]

Because I think if you need to turn around he would be watching it right in front of your face I just had that funny idea that's the way it would be no it's not anything to do with you it's all about him. Being selfish and he's being lazy most guys that watch porn you're just lazy they would rather sit on their but and whack their weiner because it's not as much work as making love to their girlfriend or wife that means they're lazy and they're only thinking about themselves they're probably not a very good lay in bed either

[Anonymous]

Is he just doing it when he's horny and you're not there? Because that's just normal. It's a visual stimulant/aid and nothing more. But if there's more to it, then maybe he has a problem? But for the sake of the relationship, is it a possibility that it's something you can share/watch together? Maybe it can bring you closer (or, he'll be so turned off that you're watching it with him he'll stop! LOL). But I don't know how you feel about porn personally? But maybe turn it into a positive instead of a negative?

[jazzersizemfkrz89]

We are always together, around the times he's watching it, but I will try your suggestion, thank you

[Den1971]

I don't know what your sex life is like but there's obviously some things that are in those movies that he's possibly not getting with you but it also sounds like an addiction if you talked about it you shouldn't find any more but if you're still finding it there's a problem I would get out before you have nothing left self-esteem or him it's better to lose him than lose yourself that's being real

[Darklydarkened]

It can become an addiction. There are a lot of disorders that can cause people to just be compelled to watch porn.

[Mark987]

Terry Crews who is married with a family... had a porn addiction. Has nothing to do with you

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ei0stwoEwOc

[jasco]

No more than likely he is a addict. More than likely it has nothing to do with you.

[humanearth]

Nothing to do with you,

Its like smoking and drinking. Its a addiction

[Sketti2021]

A lot of guys do it. It has nothing to do with you.

[Neosporin]

Well what do you watch to masturbate? Think of it like that.

[jazzersizemfkrz89]

I don't Masturbate, bc I don't need too...

[Neosporin]

Well some people do so yeah

[jazzersizemfkrz89]

Congratulations

[Anonymous]

Do you have natural female mental fantasy still after all this time?

It’s the same thing. It’s NATURAL male visual fantasy.

[spartan55]

It really has nothing to do with you.

[Pterodon]

Because he’s addicted

[Pterodon]

It won’t ever change so you have a decision

[shadowlunitic03]

That's why I don't watch it with women in it

[In_Trance]

because he likes it

[Erron_Black]

u sex with him?