Should I ghost someone I met on a dating app?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy a while ago we are different ethinicity. he has no friends my race so its kinda odd he into me. he asked for my social (do not have his number) and we started to talk there. we were suppose to meet up last week but cancelled. I don't know i feel like he wanna hook up we only been talking 2-3 days and he said he wants to make out we never video or even had a phone call. so i cancelled and I don't know if i will reschedule. hard to think u wanna make out with a stranger you just met. also in the past i meet guys quickly but never goes anywhere because the friendship and emotional side was not built. do you think we should talk for a couple weeks? i just do not feel comfortable too meet him in person yet. he did offer to pick me up but told him no because i do not know him he said its okay. i do like him but im just careful i do not get hurt i need to know more about him.

[BriGinny]

It’s just too much to talk about within 2-3 days to already be planning on kissing on the first meet up. It’s like he’s laying out his intentions and wants to see how far you willing to go.

[Anonymous]

Go with your gut, it’s only been a couple days so cut him off, it’s really no love lost.

[DreamCrescent]

agree. if you have a bad feeling within a few days of texting, doubtful it gets better in person. not worth the trouble

and it wouldn’t be ghosting to ignore him. it’s your prerogative