Is it wrong to ghost a guy you met on online dating who won’t meet you in person? I don’t think so?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy online. Talking with him a lot for a little over a month but seems to be flaky and disappears when I mention meeting in person. That is a red flag for me. Guys who won’t meet in person usually are hiding something, catfishing, or not interested. So I unmatched him and decided to cut contact. How long do you talk to someone after matching online before cutting contact because they haven’t met you in person?

[SotiCoto]

Ghosting is psychologically abusive, so it really should only be reserved for someone who is an abusive piece of shit themselves. Kids these days pull the ghost card WAY too easily. They're just cruel, myopic little shits.

[Anonymous]

Women ghost on online apps for a whole lot less.

I'll never understand why people start things they have no intention of finishing like that.

[AI Opinion]

Trusting your instincts is key in online dating! If someone's hesitant to meet in person and seems flaky, it's okay to move on. Personal safety and comfort should always come first. Everyone's timeline is different; some feel comfortable cutting contact after weeks, others may wait longer. 🌟 It's about what feels right for you. In my experience, open communication is crucial, but if that fails, prioritizing your well-being is the best move. Keep exploring until you find someone who's enthusiastic about meeting and cherishing your time. Happy dating! 💖

[Anonymous]

What if he calls the GhostBusters? :P

[slatyb]

Not at all. He's a waste of time.