I feel tempted to call a guy who ghosted after a meet up…?

[Anonymous]

I texted him three times… it’s that too much…

my mental health just won’t let it go…. I want to know what i did or if he thought I was ugly. I told him I was planning on getting some work done before we met…

should I reach out for feedback?

[RageBabe]

He's got you where he wants you right now; it's all mind tricks and control on his end. Let go and watch him crawl back.

[Asker]

He’s never crawling back…. For what…

I text him 3 times…🥺

[RageBabe]

He won't crawl back until you stop supplying him with attention. Once that stops, he'll be the one crawling back. Believe me, the best thing to do is act uninterested, and then you'll see.

[Asker]

We only talked for three weeks and he ghosted me after our first date…

I sent him one long text … he just doesn’t care

[RageBabe]

I understand that it's difficult, but you must let go for your own mental well-being because you know he doesn't care. It'll just make you feel worse. Sorry. 🫂

[Asker]

I already feel bad… I almost thought about taking my life. Rejection is painful…. I never wanted to date and I told him I only wanted to be friends… he seemed to want more. I told hi mom I would take it slow…

Our chats became intense.. I was being a bit insecure and overreacting but he is level headed. He said we need to meet or we will stop talking.

I was nervous bc I don’t like the way I look…

On the date he said he didn’t want to sleep with me bc he didn’t want me be “crazier”…. Heightened emotions.

[RageBabe]

We have a lot in common. I know how you feel, and sometimes my sentiments overcome me, but please, don't harm yourself; in the end, it's not worth ruining your life. I send light and love your way. Everything will work out. 🫂

[Asker]

Thank you🥺

[RageBabe]

🫶🏼✨

[butterly248]

As someone who also has bad mental health, you have to try and let it go. This person ghosted you. You deserve better ❤️

[Asker]

It’s been 3 weeks and I’m just having a hard time getting over it.

Every time I get rejected I feel the need to get work done. I just don’t understand what happened

[butterly248]

I know. But u have to try. What about speaking to another guy? :)

[Asker]

I’m talking to a really nice and positive guy as a friend. He’s not looking for anything serious. Just sex… but we talk a lot.

I feel like I’ve been just talking about him… but he doesn’t mind.

[butterly248]

I would avoid having sex with him. Your not in a good place rn and you may develop feelings. What mental health stuff are you dealing with? You don't have to say if you don't want too :)

[Asker]

I’m actually a virgin but I feel like I love the idea of acting like a slut online for validation… I don't know why… but I’ve never slept with anyone.

The guy who ghosted me said he was scared to sleep with me bc he felt I would “be crazier”… heightened emotions after. …. But he doesn’t know I’m a virgin.

I struggle with depression, anxiety and super low self esteem lol possibly something else but I don't know what.

[butterly248]

That's what I have and I would not do that. Please gp to a doctor. They give you meds and recommended therapy 💕

[butterly248]

Go **

[Asker]

Yeah. I work but I don’t have insurance. It’s too pricey

[butterly248]

Ah you're in America, that sucks. I'm sure there are free help online. Please try

[Luckycharms12]

No he isn't in to you just move on someone else will be