Why won't creepy men get the message?

[Anonymous]

They don't get it and I wish they did.

I have a simple message for you: keep your romantic advances to yourself unless you are well acquainted with the woman. We are not interested in your attempts to woo us. You are merely embarrassing yourselves and wasting our precious time.

Consider this: your situation is akin to a man attempting to attract him. Regardless of how much so-called "game" he possesses, it will not work. You are not wired for it, and neither are we.

It's really equivalent to a stronger, muscular man approaching him and trying to make love to him. (Only analogy they'll get)

I'm not attracted to you and want peace in my life.

[Summeroflove]

Because there are people who can’t take a direct NO for a answer and those are almost never the type of men you want. Sure there are attractive men who simply want sex and not a serious relationship as well out there. But for the most part it’s the creeps and losers who are desperate.

They think if they keep trying it will eventually work and for the older creeps maybe it worked when they were younger but they think it works now when you look like their grandpa.

Some people simply feel entitled even if it’s not someone they know at all. What makes them feel this way? I really don’t know or understand myself. There are women like that too. But at the end of the day is someone tells you to leave them alone leave them alone.

Yes, if someone’s respectful about it they can make a romantic advance on someone. Don’t be a pervert and if you’re shut down leave that person alone… I get that sometimes you have to meet someone somehow. But it depends on how someone goes about it.

[Anonymous]

Tell us you're unattractive and are bitter about it without telling us you're unattractive and bitter about it.😆🤦‍♂️

Not all guys are excited about the level of women who approach them either hun. But they're not so narcissistic as to despise those women. You should probably work on this... or don't, but regardless you look the way you look amd reality is not changing to suit you. Sorry!

[DishLady]

This isn't so much a question as a personal declaration... What is it you want others to contribute to this? "GO GIRL" perhaps? No, sweetie.

Word of advice: If you're continually being hounded by so-called "creepy" guys look in the mirror and ask yourself wtf you're doing to signal "Hey, I'm here. Pay attention to me. Pick me."

I know I know, it's not at all trendy to tell someone "It's not them, it's YOU." The truth is it's always BOTH PEOPLE who contribute to a position in which THEY BOTH ARE.

So... check yourself before posting nonsensical quasi-feminist drivel that makes all women look like idiots, will you? Have a nice life, little chippy.

[alli-112]

Because creepy is subjective, some people are fine being approached, some people lack the ability to read social cues, and some people just genuinely are selfish and don't care how you feel about it?

Don't get me wrong. I feel you to some degree, getting approached by someone you're not attracted too or who acts poorly is a sucky experience, but if the only problem is that you aren't intersted in them, try to stay respectful. Not being to your taste doesn't mean a guy can't find people attractive and try to pursue something they're interested in (as long as they take no for an answer, of course).

[StephanieChick111]

I disagree. I love it when guys (or girls) talk to me.

[Asker]

You are different from me then.

[StephanieChick111]

Some people are more social than others.

[PeachyPie93]

Just be upfront and say you're not interested..

[DannyUk2017]

Someone has "risen the standards", i wonder... What You Bring to the Table? 🤔

[Ariesman81]

Tell me you're a c**t without telling me you're a c**t

[Asker]

How would you feel if another male tried to swoon you? It doesn’t matter how much game he has or how “kind” he is.

This is how we feel about men we don't desire.

[Ariesman81]

Thanks for the reply but I'm not interested

[jahaims]

Have fun being ran through and single at 35 deciding to settle for one of those creeps because they are the only ones willing to be simps.

[zagor]

So basically you want to be a nun, sans the religion.

[Asker]

No. Ugly and short men stay away though.

[zagor]

And how TF do you expect men to know if you don't consider them "suitable" if they don't approach you?

[Anonymous]

Just make sure you tell him he is creepy. He will probably leave you alone after that.

[seeyounexttuesday]

aka "I only want men I deem to be attractive to hit on me"

[Sam1133]

Cutie i bet girls won't agree with you at least on this app...

[Anonymous]

From what I understand, when you say 'creepy' you're really just talking about short and ugly men, right?

[Asker]

Not necessarily. It’s more about how someone approaches, how they behave, and whether they respect boundaries. However most creeps are short and ugly.

[Opinion Owner]

So how is a short guy asking out a woman like a straight guy feeling uncomfortable when another man hits on him?

[Asker]

Short men lack sexual dimorphism, and sometimes it genuinely feels like they’re the same gender as me. That also applies to men who lack strong masculine traits. From my perspective, it’s no different than you, as a man, never being attracted to another male — it just doesn’t register and never will.