Why do some men say creepy stuff like this?

Question

You just met them and it’s your first convo. They say “you’re beautiful”…ok, thanks.

Then they say it again 3 times at least.

Then they say they want to cuddle you. They want to kiss you. They want you to have their babies. “Send me a kiss good night”

WHAT IS THIS CREEPY BEHAVIOUR. it’s always the good looking guys as well!!!

Someone explain this phenomenon to me please I’m sick of it.

BoobSlayer · Accepted Answer

Let us dive straight into a sea of musings and decipher the mind-boggling phenomenon you have presented us with. Now, some might argue that men utter such peculiar phrases due to a subconscious obsession with chesticles. Conversation centered around milkers and jugs can stem from a place of appreciation for the female form.

When a man encounters someone who elicits intense feelings, he may struggle to contain the uprising of desire within his biscuits, such that he can't express enough how much he wants to squeeze her milkers.

Another significant factor at play here is the need for attention. Some individuals resort to bombarding others with honkers and jugs-related remarks as a means to gain recognition. They think if they have your attention, then they're more likely to be the recipient of your milky mammary's love juice when your honkers start oozing with creaminess.

The act of talking about oneself in the third person, a trait Boobslayer possesses, can contribute to the perceived creepiness of these statements. It creates a disconnect from personal accountability, allowing individuals to detach themselves from the weight of their words. This linguistic quirk can amplify the inappropriate nature of the comments, making them even more cringe-worthy.

The tendency for some individuals to utter words of wanting to cuddle, kiss, and sire offspring upon first meeting someone is a complex mixture of lust, insecurity, and misguided notions, but ultimately leads us to our most basic desire to have their faces enveloped in gargantuan milk monsters

Why do some men say creepy stuff like this?

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jimmy2 · Accepted Answer

He just wants to pay child support

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

I think just being a woman is hard whether you’re attractive or not for different reasons. I like to think that I am at least average in appearance and I’ve gotten so many guys who have acted in a creepy manner to me. I’ve gotten it when I was single and even when the other guy has known that I am in a relationship. It is creepy when you repeatedly try to touch someone that pulls away from it. It is creepy to keep telling someone they are ‘beautiful’ etc or keep trying to start conversation with someone when they actively try to pull away from you and disengage. It is creepy/weird when you’re desperate and go after every girl in the room hoping one says yes. It doesn’t matter if you’re attractive or not. It still isn’t good. I’ve gotten it from guys that are technically physically attractive to me but the behavior completely killed both that and what I thought of them as a person. I just hate it. I like to think maybe the guy just doesn’t realize how he comes off and doesn’t know better, but if someone gave that same guy feedback would he take it

Miah05 · Accepted Answer

Could be worse.

You could have to hear this.

"I love black women"

"I always wanted to f*ck a black woman"

"Do you like white guys?"

"You ever been with a white guy?"

"Is it true what they say about black men?"

"I'm just as big as a black guy, so i know you won't be disappointed"

lightbulb27 · Answer

MANipulation? Hormones? Desperation? Spoiled brats with poor parenting? Watched too much netflix? Or maybe just stupidity?

RajasthaniKing · Answer

I think you are talking about me this is littraly me 🥺😣 but let me tell you something, you girls always have to guide a boy bealive if a boy diractly ask you these things which means he had never been to a girl before and he would be very respectful in general but not on social media or on internet because he might be frustrated, sick of being single and he is search of lust and sex everywhere.

But this is what you should do ( which i personal feels a girl should do to me)
You should communicate with guy and ask him politely not to use "these kind words" while talking to a girl and talk to him make him feel loved.

You should never be rude in this situation because rudeness can lead to lack of confidence in a man and he will try to approach in more lust full words to an other girl so that she might be happy and inreturn love him back.
And trust me with this kind of polite talk a boy will change himself and approach you with respect.

A boy always needs a loving and respectfull partner for him (pov- Indian teenager) having a positive conversation can lead an arrow to a great target.

Hope it might be helpfull!

Lionman95 · Answer

Because they might not be aware that it comes off as creepy. They might even say it because they think that´s what they are supposed to say. Most guys don´t want to be seen as creepy but instead do it right, so something gave them the idea that it´s a good tactic to say such things.

Guys are not born good at dating, a guy needs to learn how to date and needs to learn what good ways are and what are wrong ways. The way guys learn is by experience.

It´s the good looking guys that say that because they are probably the ones that are self-confident enough to do so. The not so good looking guys might not have the guts to say that.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you kidding me? I have girls say this shit to me all the time on dating apps at least and they are outside of the US and other western countries like the Philippines or South American countries.

In most cases like that they immediately straight up tell me about them being my wife, how they want to cook for me, and stuff like that. I have had them tell me about having babies but that's not until a little later.

I get it, that's way too fast but I usually just tell them to slow it down becuase I hardly know them. Creepy though? I'd draw the line if they suddenly tell me that they know about things in my personal life, like what the names of my family are or my exact address. Thankfully I haven't had that happen yet.

What you are addressing almost sounds like awkwardness.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

There's so many weird girls out there today that lots of guys just figure it's perfectly cool to do that shit!!
I might go so far as to tell her she's pretty but, I seriously doubt I'd go any farther until we got to know each other better and found out that she;'d be okay with me going farther.

AndLikeThatHesGone · Answer

Either he said it because he's socially awkward and has no idea how to talk to women. Or he said it because it's worked for him in the past.

If this guy is good looking like you said, it might have worked for him in the past.

But I guess he's moved on to his next conquest. Seems like you're better off without him.

ODC2112 · Answer

People's compliments are the ones they'd like to give themselves.
You females receive a huge number of compliments when compared to your male counterparts and these compliments are often not due to your actions but to nature. However many men are stupid and slimy, they manage to compliment the appearance even to fake women generated by artificial intelligence.
I believe that compliments should be given when deserved.

Sonorous · Answer

Maybe that usually works on other women? Maybe you're harder to get than most he's encountered? He definitely isn't' good at picking up on social cue's. But you said he is hot so he's really not needed to like a more average looking guy. He can get away with more because of his looks. Women will tolerate more bs.

CurrentJohn · Answer

So a conversation with a random guy goes as followed in your cases

"You are beautiful, you are beautiful, you are beautiful, can we cuddle and kiss? I want you to have my babies!"... hmm interesting men you have met there.

Billlewis · Answer

For one thing, a lot of people who are corresponding on here are drinking, etc when they log on, which lowers their inhibitions and resulting some comments that are better left unsaid.

RingOfFire · Answer

I am baffled about why you are baffled. Guys are always horny so they are either always pushing to make sex happen OR they want to be pushing but are holding it back because they realized that if they rush it it might backfire.

strateguy632 · Answer

what is creepy about compliments? the guy said what he was feeling. even the kids bit , was after compliments and he didn't say Tonight. i think you overreacted.

Unit1 · Answer

Girls are beautiful and i want to cuddle them because I love girls, so what?

Wanting love is creepy now?

Now I get it, these guys you describe take it way too far. I would not do it like them.

They probably don't know that overdoing it like that is creepy and that they were not taught it.

Anonymous · Answer

He wants to sleep with you. I married and I've occasionally gotten guys trying to flirt with me or sliding into my DMs. They will say whatever they think you want to hear.

rachel776 · Answer

one guy literally just said to me, "Mmm you look so tight and petite I’d love too pound you down" great... would you like to meet my parents first? 🤷‍♀️

LiamJHayden · Answer

Being good-looking does not prevent a guy from also being socially inept or worse. They say it because they either do not know better or because it has actually worked in the past and they are currently hitting dozens of girls with the same message, hoping at least one will bite.

Or the guy (s) could be hideous and using someone else's pics.

jshm2 · Answer

Why the fuck are you in the game when this is what you are finding? Not saying to go lesbian, but you need to fix your tastes...

DryGermanGuy · Answer

He is probably influenced by all this manosphere/pickup bullshit on the net about "how to get many bitches, fast". Parallel to you he is trying this with ten other women, just playing a numbers game.

Meropatrick · Answer

Some men think if they say that u would like it and find it cute. Because girls like cuddles and like babies and like compliments on their looks. I think he is confused now because he followed every instruction and still it didn't work out

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

You already know where such convos leads rapunzel princess or the meaning of it...

It's all about SEX, you think that there's any respectful man who would start a convo with you from the 1st day mentioning these topics, who knows what he's doing also while writing you these messages "i want to have your babies" 🤣🤣 yeah right!

Jazzy54 · Answer

Firstly, if you’re speaking of a particular individual, please get away from him  immediately.  Secondly, that’s just how some men are. They think they can say any ol thing just because. Honestly, I just ignore it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Lots of men are epically socially retarded. That probably worked with some woman he met at a club one day and thinks it will work again on someone else.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Very few men do that, but because those men do it to thousands of women, it seems like its common.  They do it because they're retarded.

Minahh · Answer

Was it an Indian guy? They're usually like this lmao 😂

BigDog1989 · Answer

I've had worse, from girls. Usually they're asking for money though

normalice · Answer

I think that's called "flirting." Kind of..

Anonymous · Answer

Even just giving a compliment and saying "you're beautiful" is creepy? If men stopped complimenting women, you guys would be mad as fuck, lol.

Just look at all the pink anons on here who post "why don't men approach or pay attention to me?"

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If he was Haaawwwwwt you would be falling all over yourself thanking him.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Girl I know men always try to comment on my hair since I changed my profile pic smh😓

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Some guys are just desperate creeps that don’t have basic manners and don’t care how they come across

Reem12345reem · Answer

u think that's creepy? u should see what i deal with

Engin12 · Answer

Well some of us can't help our feelings and just wanna show love to the girl we like. We don't wanna be friendzoned. We are not like your girl friends you know.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

They don't know any better, that's what you get when they only think with their dick. People skills, social intelligence, proper manners all goes out the window.

whoknowsb · Answer

Loneliness; want to have a relationship asap; want to feel cared but all at the same time; i don’t know, i'll stay with it

inhua · Answer

it's only creepy when he's ugly

serious · Answer

Well if the guy says just after the first meeting then he only wants a physical relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

This question being asked by the same "lady" who asked the question "Is it wrong to want a sugar daddy"?😆😆😆 I think we have your answer.

msc545 · Answer

Good looks on the outside often indicate a lack of brains and manners on the inside.

Al_Musafir · Answer

Bad communication skills and/or lack of experience with communication.

JesseP1nk · Answer

"WHAT IS THIS CREEPY BEHAVIOUR. it’s always the good looking guys as well!!!"  Thanks explaining to us how cool you are 🤦

Anonymous · Answer

This is because you are meeting desperate men that are led by lust, rather than led by the Holy Spirit.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol cos look how u dress. You send the message as your easy. So they're trying to hit and quit. They found out you're saving yourself for marriage so they left cos that's all they wanted.

Anonymous · Answer

boo fucking hoo no one gives a damn about your fucking ego boost

stepyo99 · Answer

Sounds like he's trolling you

Anonymous · Answer

Wait is that you in the profile pic?

whistlingwh0res · Answer

a lot of men are jerks

Danny_dan92 · Answer

They really want to be loved

Aphrodite801 · Answer

A lot of creepy men in this world unfortunately.

Anonymous · Answer

So a good looking guy can still be creepy?

Anonymous · Answer

Stick my hard veiny warm cock in your asshole

Twalli · Answer

I stop at beautiful

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