"What a woman finds attractive is not the same as what a man finds attractive" How true is this statement?

[ariadneR]

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think it safe to say men and women are different. I can't think of very many conventionally attractive women I've denied accessibility to simply because she works a low-wage or low-status job. Height is another one, I don't have a standard like 'she must be taller because I like to wear cowboy boots.' 😂

Sure, I can find women that would like another women the same as I, but all those cases are outliers. It's called gay... just like when a man likes another man for reasons that seem oddly the same as women. Something is wrong with their thinking meat. I can't even tell if other men are attractive or not. Some men are so metro they can even though they don't want penis... just is what it is.

Your statement is generally true, but these pretentious buttholes online are going to bring up those outlier examples as if you could find them everywhere at a random Wallmart with ease.

Men and women are different, generally.

[Babygirl_S]

Men base their entire attraction on whiteness of a girl. I wanted to say pretty but the racist attitudes towards pretty and darker women are telling. A woman who would not look that great without her low melanin situation is usually liked. It really is that simple for them. They get boners from it. She is never a boner killing troll. Then they become masochistic submissive boys.

Women mostly do a complete analysis of the man and look for a good balance. Our arousal is more complex. He can quickly seem to be a headache inducing pussy drying troll no matter how attractive his appearance is. Also, most women are open to different skin tones and many who look good pick dudes who have questionable looks. They also date any age unlike boys who discard women at 30.

It is a nasty game they play to make a woman decide in a hurry while they spend their entire youth making the decision to marry someone carefully.

[genericname85]

you think it may have something to do with the fact that black girls have a 50% chance of having genital herpes while white girls (or pretty much any other ethnicity) only have like a 15% chance? have you ever stopped to think that people aren't actually racist but have other logical reasons? or is it really that you're the racist looking for a reason to hate on white men?

[Billlewis]

I respectfully disagree. I adore Indian women, and I've been fortunate enough to have gad the privilege of being a personal servant for two Americanized (born in the U. S.) Indian empresses, which I of course did free of cost, co. pensarion or any other kind of compensation, other than the occasional thrashing. I also find your practice of shaming simps utterly divine, just like you. I recently began following you and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow or message me, as well.

[Babygirl_S]

@genericname85 I mean I’m not black but black girls and boys are equal when it comes to Herpes maybe that’s why they get Herpes

[genericname85]

with black men, it's 20% less likely than in black women.

[alli-112]

I mean, with the acknowledgement that personal taste varies to a pretty major degree. I think it's more accurate to say that people attracted to one gender find different traits attractive than those attracted to a different gender, ya know? But again, personal taste above all else.

[Finchie40]

That’s pretty much true , Females’ think differently then guys’ do , mainly because our brains are wired differently, I can’t speak for everyone, but a majority of females’ and Males don’t think alike when it comes to attraction and chemistry and connection , why it’s hard for a lot of people to find someone that is pretty much on the same exact page as themselves, , they might have the same morals and beliefs but it doesn’t mean they are exactly alike , the truth is we are all imperfect people. Living in a world that messes all of our minds up , basically what you think is right might be wrong , we really don’t have answers just experiences and things we witness but does it really mean anything? I just like to live my life as positive as can be , because tomorrow is not promised , so drink , smoke weed and Fuck , we are all going to die of something

[ShellyB]

I think each individual finds a unique set of things attractive but I do agree that in general, if you took 100 girls and 100 guys, and you had all the guys vote on the ten best looking girls out of 100, and had all the girls vote on the ten best looking girls, you’d prob get almost totally different results. I think girls are often more into things like facial bone structure, and height bc it is better for showing off fashion so we associate it more w models. I think guys are more into sexiness and cuteness, and tight or revealing clothes.

I bet a lot of girls have had the experience of learning to identify which other girls your boyfriend will find attractive and pointing them out to him (in public or on TV) to see if you were right! Hint you will be spending a lot of time looking at girls booties, and how much skin they show!

[AviatorTom]

That's mostly true.

There's an old story about the differences between pleasing a woman and a man.

How a man can please a woman: Buy her jewelry and chocolate, take her to a romantic dinner, tell her how great she looks, give her a massage

How a woman can please a man: Bring beer and have sex

[Summeroflove]

Sure men and women do look for different things. But every man and woman is different. Some people think everyone of the same sex thinks exactly like them but that’s not true.

[DishLady]

Depends on the person's sexual preference. Generally it's true for hetero individuals.

[Avicenna]

Not as much as some people think. Women care about looks at least as much as men do.

[rtj1211]

You might as well also say: 'What women in different cultures find attractive is not the same' too. Attractive traits in a hyper-competitive 'masculine' culture may be very different to those in a more consensual, more sharing, less unequal culture.

My life experience taught me that I was not considered attractive by British women, but for some reason, women in central- and Eastern European countries did find me attractive. I've no idea the reason for the differences, but it was immediately obvious to me.

[Lliam]

Totally true. Men are attracted to the female form and women are attracted to the male form. Both are vastly different.

Also, men are attracted to women's voices, mannerisms and style of grooming. And they are attracted to women's nurturing nature.
Women are attracted to male confidence and competence. They want safety and security. They also want emotional connection.

When it comes to sex, most women like a dominant (not domineering) man. And men like women who are more submissive but still enthusiastic.

[hannamontana]

It’s pretty true. While there’s overlap, women often value things like confidence, emotional connection, and security more, while men may focus more on physical attraction at first. Of course, everyone’s different, but the way attraction works can vary a lot between genders.

[Billlewis]

Well, there's at least one thing we both have in common -- we don't like nice guys/nice girls, although this applies much more to women than guys. A lot of guys like a nice, sweet girl, but most women will treat a man who respects her like dog shit.

[Jersey2]

Very true. Men are visual and looking for a healthy mate and future mother. Also someone who will help him. She is looking for a protector, physically and financially as that offers protections and advantages as well. Someone that can provide.

[Shiprex]

It's absolutely true. Women see status and prospects as being more important than men. Career achievements and sexual experience are not a huge turn on for men and most women aren't that keen to be with a novice in the bedroom department.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I find it way more true when expanding: What a person finds attractive is not the same as what another person finds attractive.

[genericname85]

on a character level it's mostly the same but maybe different inpriority. on a visual superficial level, it's different.

[capriVib]

The correct statement is that women focus more on a man's functionality, while men focus more on physical appearance.

[NathanDavis]

different people like different things... regardless of gender

[avery58]

It's true. Women prefer striking beauty, guys usually prefer plainer looking beauty.

[4ngelic]

physically yes, but for personality what we like is similar besides a few things

[Emmytexrex]

Really really true
Woman works with emotions it is like a switch turn of and on they can be attracted to this and next time nah why emotions while men more on the physical side

[Miristheiss]

100%.

Grass is green. The sky is blue. Do people really not know that?

[Nikki1989]

90% accurate. Men usually get it all so wrong.

[anon1903]

In what way? Sexually, women want movies and men want porn

[HerrMann]

I’m the guy who wants Love by Gasper Noe. 🤓🌸❤️🍑

[Pohjolan]

Depends on whether she is straight or lesbian.

[nawtee_me]

I think your statement is true for the most part. I also find you attractive….

[Anonymous]

No, I think it depends on every individual, not on their gender.

[Anonymous]

It might have been true at one time but it's become less so with each generation.

[Chazmatazz269]

100%

[WhitneySnow]

In general pretty true

[WonderingManII]

100 percent true.

[Kelly6]

@ariadneR 100% true

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's true in some cases but not all

[Jennz6]

So true

[Anonymous]

well men are only into boobs and butt.

[wolverin38]

Good post

[MasterKS]

spot on!