"Being a good man doesn't make you an attractive man." True or False?

[MCheetah]

"Being a good person doesn't make you an attractive person." (If anything, it makes you less attractive in the eyes of many women.)

True or False?

True / Mostly True

False / Mostly False

Updates

1 y

Since you brought it up, let's assume any of these hypothetical 'good men' in question are not weak, cowardly, or a simp.

Updates

1 y

Also, the quote isn't saying "You can't be good and attractive at the same time." It's saying, "just being good for goodness sake, isn't actually attractive to women at all." It's usually like, number 14th on the checklist of things women want, under wealth, height, good looks, ego, social status, etc.

[HighValue]

True. Someone can be a good person and either be good looking physically or not good looking physically.

In my opinion though, if I meet a woman and her looks are AT LEAST a 5 or better, her being a good person can increase her physical attractiveness to me over time by as much as 2 points. So if she was originally a 7, if she has morals and a personality that I really like, over time I will actually start to find her more physically attractive. So say one person was a 7 to start with and another person was a 6. If the 7 had a good personality/morals, she could become more attractive to me over time than the other person.
It works in the opposite direction too though. If someone is initially physically attractive and I realize that her morals and personality are awful, she can actually become unattractive to me permanently.

[hahahmm]

I think a lot of women try to manipulate dudes & what these women are saying is that they try to avoid guys who aren't easily manipulated unless the guy has other things that are irresistible about him. But for a guy who doesn't want to be manipulated it's a plus if the top level female manipulators want to avoid him. They don't have to deal with the Amber Heards of the world. Amber would never get with a guy like me even if I was worth $500 billion because she'd know that the second she slaps me I'm punching her in the face in self-defense without hesitation, for example. It's just not worth the risk to her.

[hahahmm]

And I see some guys responding that women don't like 'nice' guys. A woman wants a guy who has a backbone. But I wouldn't define being wimpy/soft/simp as being good. Jesus for example wasn't a simp but he was good.

[MCheetah]

I mean, assuming he was real, Jesus *was* kind of a simp and coward.

[hahahmm]

Totally disagree with you. A simp is desperate to please women... believes every woman without question and so on. Jesus point blank ignored/went against what his mom wanted on multiple occasions. A simp either wouldn't do that it would struggle to decide what to do. Also, unless you have knowingly went into a kangaroo court that was looking to execute you without whining/begging/crying or even saying the court is a sham, you should watch who you call a coward.

[Berethor]

It's the Draco in leather pants trope, yea it more about looks, and many girls prefer bad boys.

[MCheetah]

You forgot the TV Tropes link.

[MCheetah]

... Or maybe links just aren't working on GAG anymore.

tvtropes. org/pmwiki/pmwiki. php/Main/DracoInLeatherPants

[Berethor]

Yea it's not working, but google is working. :)

[SlangSlayer]

Depends on good.

Are u a pushover? Can you lead? Are you fun?

Women are more concerned with that. There a lot of good men but they soft and women smell it on them.


Bt to answer your question morality doesn't always equal attractivness it can be good trait later on.

[exitseven]

lots of really attractive people are real assholes. I don't know if they were born like that or did they get like that because they can get by on their looks.

[SlothySlob]

Define attractive.
From my experience women abuse the word "love" to such a degree that it looses all it's meaning. Same with "attractive".

[Fuentes]

Yup most women hate nice guys lol they find it boring

[pers0n]

Whenever I sense bullshitn I leave. Simple.

[JesseJayNeak]

Damn true