Just because a man struggles with attracting women, doesn't mean he has a bad personslity. True or false?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Cookingnaked1126]

It means he's rarely in a position to have a girl see his true personality, to allow her to see past his physical appearance. That's why it's easier to have workplace romances, and to meet people where you're being exposed to people of the opposite sex that can get to know the true you. We all knew that not so attractive guy, mainly in school, that attracted beautiful girls. That's because they were exposed to each other all day and got to see past looks. If you're in those situations and a girl still doesn't feel a spark, try again with someone else. If you aren't having any luck, PERIOD, then you either have your standards set too high or your personality is lacking, along with your looks.

[Anonymous]

women don't care about a man's personality if they don't like his looks

classical example - Luigi Mangione is a murderer with women simping over him

Ted Bundy, Jeremy Meeks, Jeffery Dahmer, Wade Wilson all considered attractive yet all criminals

if Trump was on par with Chris Hemsworth in terms of looks, women wouldn't a shit about him being all these labels the left-wing media throws at him (many don't) but the point being personality means jack shit when the packaging is hard on the eyes

[Nikki1989]

Good grief!

[Opinion Owner]

@Nikki1989 I know this is hard for you to accept about yourself Nikki

keep telling GAG how much you love dad bods over 6 pack abs if you think it makes you believable

I'm sure you're dying to know the "great" personality of a 5'3 school janitor with a 2 inch dick

[Anonymous]

If a good man is unable to attract women it doesn't mean he has bad personality but it only means that he doesn't know how to be presentable before women, he is unable to project himself. It's like a good book having bad cover or bad presentation that nobody is willing to start reading even.

[Asker]

You can be presentable and still have no success. There are no absolutes

[Opinion Owner]

If you are presentable as well as you are a good man, a good human being still you are getting no success then you are meeting wrong women.

[Asker]

How can you be so sure about that? Are you saying that doing everything gurantees success?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. What could be reasons for failure if everything is good? I would love to know if I'm wrong.

[Asker]

Luck? You can be really unlucky and still never succeed and a guy who's lazy who doesn't do much can be more succcesful than you.

[Opinion Owner]

Luck can't be responsible much in this case because there are many options out there, you don't have to compete for only one. Yeh if you want only and only one person and you want to attract her only, there luck can be responsible that maybe your timeing wasn't right and some else came to her in right time.

But in this question you asked about attracting women in general sense. There luck can't be responsible. If you are unable to attract one but you are presenting yourself well, and you are a good human being, surely you will attract women, if not her then someone beside her someone around you. Always. Women always want to have good men. They are always looking for them.

[BarryLiverstone]

She’s right. If you look good, have a good personality and vibe, and can approach and talk to a woman. It’s not about luck. A guy will be successful

[Asker]

@BarryLiverstone That's not a gurantee. Many people try and try and still fail. Sometimes its your fault, other times it isn't. The world isn't as predictable as a lot of people think it is. There's no cosmic justice that grants rewards or punishes people due to wether they try hard enough. A lazy man can be successful while a hard working man can be unsuccessful. You should try though. I always encourage people to try but don't beat youself or be upset with yourself if you still don't get what you want

[Asker]

That's still not a gurantee though. Many good people died without ever having a partner and it wasn't because a lot of them weren't trying hard enough. Some people just get unlucky. The only true gurantee in life is death

[Opinion Owner]

I would say that you don't need to work "hard". If you will work "hard" to attract women, it will make you present as creepy. You can go through some cases of Incels killer. Some of them had really very handsome faces. Some were having all shorts of things what a woman would need for a comfortable life. Still, when they are unable to get a girl they get desperate, and in that desperation they start acting weird. And they start acting creepy. That again makes women to run away.

[Asker]

That can make a lot of women run away. Absolutely. But there are men who always present some kind of danger and display a lot of red flags that should make them repellent to women but some women still go through with dating those men anyway even when the danger is always present being around these men

[Opinion Owner]

Because they know how to represent themselves beautifully na.

When a woman date, they first concentrate on the outer look or how she is feeling to be with that person. If that person is talking well, making her feel as comfortable, respecting her (no matter he is just pretending). Then that woman feels happy with that man, and the happy harmones gets released in her brain what makes her feel good, gives her butterflies and makes her feel like she is in love. And so she ignores red flag. Because that's just red flags then, not the reality. And she ignore it thinking like maybe she is thinking too much. And that's how that man gets her.

If you can make a woman feel comfortable with cozy around you. If you can make her good vibes of happiness and positivity around you. You can get any woman. In the further stage it comes that what kind of person you are in real, no matter everything what you did earlier was just pretending. Still you successfully presented yourself well. So you got the girl.

Later what kind of person you are or what kind of person she is, makes her to stay or to leave.

[Asker]

So it can be delusional as well then. Thinking a man is being good to you when other people objectively know he's not being good to you

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Absolutely. That's why in later stage many girls regret choosing that man, or for ignoring red flags before. Most of people doesn't think with brain. But they believe what's glittering is gold at first sight and feels sooooo proud that wow i have the most shiniest one. But later on with experiences and with every topple they get in life they learn the lesson.

But also there is no other way to judge a book in first glance but only through it's first cover. That person is complete stranger to you. To be willing to invest our time in learning more about that person, first they should look good to us. We should feel as if it will be worthy to invest our time and energy there.

So it's very much important to look good and present ourselves better. No matter others bad people out there who are simply faking to be good and that's not their reality. Still that's her limitations. You both are on same level.

But still if you are a good person, a woman who is around you, in your friends circle, in your office working with you, etc who gets chance to know you, if if you are not so reserved but giving them chance to know about you, through your talks, behaviour then still you can be attracting those women. Because they know you could be better person to spend their lives with than those stranger out there who are completely unknown with many possible red flags.

[Valdemort]

Not at all.
One of my closest friends is an awesome dude, good looking too, but hasn't been with anyone in a few years.
He isn't flawless, but he's a great guy overall.
It comes down to two people, willing and ready to take things further, at the same time.

[Nikki1989]

Once you get to know a man, the personality is 80% of the attraction. Men with ZERO personality will whine about looks, blah, blah, blah, but that is not the reality with most women.

[WhitneySnow]

That is very true. It can, but it definitely doesn’t necessarily mean he does.

[Asker]

Hell a man be a piece of shit that treats women like shit and still be succesful at dating

[WhitneySnow]

Sadly that can be true, though again definitely not always true

[Asker]

Of course not always happen but villains can win

[WhitneySnow]

Sadly sometimes you’re right. You seem like a decent guy. Don’t get bitter.

[WhitneySnow]

Gtg. Have a great night.

[Asker]

Im not bitter. I just accept life for how it is. Good night ma'am

[Anonymous]

Ask your friends what it is. They have probably observed it.

[Asker]

They can assume but they'll never know for sure

[Anonymous]

I've had loads of people of both sexes tell me what a great person I am but, for some reason, every girl I end up getting involved with turns out to be either married, a cheater or a psycho.

[Avicenna]

Maybe, maybe not

[Ms_Facesitter]

Very true :)