Is a man not being shallow an attractive quality to women?

[Billybob46]

[Summeroflove]

It depends on your definition of shallow. If you’re looking for quality women that’s not being shallow, a woman who wants you and feels a sense of entitlement may see it as shallow for you rejecting her.

I mean okay, if all you’re going after is looks or superficial things. At that point yeah it’s shallow but good luck finding someone genuine. In that situation.

But people need standards and boundaries. I don’t know why people feel defensive about it…. If someone’s not into you. Move on and stop feeling entitled to another person.

[WonderingManII]

Women are attracted to men and don't really know why.

[RandomGirl42]

Oh yes. I really, really just do not like small talk (Irony since I do it so much🤣) or someone who is materialistic.

[HollyK21]

For sure, I don’t think anyone would want someone that was obsessed with certain features, because looks can fade.

[Billybob46]

I thought I wasn't crazy, more women than usual have started taking to me since I've been dating a woman with a facial deformity, they never cared much for me before.

[HollyK21]

It’s always so interesting to me how much attention you can get once you’re in a relationship lol. I swear I’ve never had more men either trying to be in my face or stare me down than when I got into a relationship.

[Billybob46]

Lol yeah, I usually get comments like "Aww! You're so sweet to go out with her!", trying to flatter me too.

[HollyK21]

Ugh, I really hate the backhanded compliments and I’m sure you get tired😩 it’s just plain old rude

[Billybob46]

Yeah I do, although it also makes me appreciate how good of a person my girlfriend is, she wouldn't say something like that.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously.

[Abbycado]

Yeah, lol. How is it not?

[zagor]

Yes, as long as he also looks great.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the woman.