Is it wrong to look for another woman while with mine because she's been toxic?

[Jayvynjustme]

If been hit told im going to be just like my father said I'm degrading and I somehow cause trauma I try so hard to love her I don't want to hurt her but I hurt so bad I almost puke because I'm confused please can a woman not a girl help me. I don't want to cheat i don't want to be alone and she helped me so much through so much. But she pushes me to become someone who i hate so much at times maybe I'm the issue I probably am from everything she said I just need advice.

[alli-112]

Dude. If you aren't getting on with your girlfriend and you don't think it's resolvable, end it. It doens't make you a shitty person. What does make you a shitty person is leading her on while you plan your break-up for the moment you find a replacement.

Yes, it's wrong, and no, it's not that hard to simply not do.

But seriously, end it and then do yourself a favor and learn how to be single for a while. You clearly have some stuff you need to work though emotionally and you'll know you've worked through it when you know how to be happy and single at the same time. Don't date again until you can do that and fucking hold yourself accountable above all else.

[laraWM]

You should probably tell her and break up before

[RavVid]

It is best to have clean hands and break the relationship before starting another.

You are not being clear on what is wrong or how she is toxic.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah. End one before looking for another. Women monkey branch. Don't be a woman.

[In_Trance]

Do you want her fucking another guy while you're still together?

[Jmmmfi4]

Do what you feel is best