Are you really in the friendzone if?

[Anonymous]

This girl and i liked each other years back. Eventually we became friends and that’s just the way it was. So 2 weekends ago we were catching up, we hadn’t seen each other in about a year. She revealed that she was into me a couple of times during our ‘platonic’ relationship.

So now I am wondering, if you were mutually invested and interested like that is it really possible to be JUST friends. I don’t think so anymore, not in this situation. Things i brushed off as normal for years weren’t normal anymore (if they ever were).

[Nikki1989]

For the one millionth time, there are NO zones!

[Asker]

So what’s it then?

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds just like a friendzone. But if you want more take the initiative and ask her out

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I’d say so, unfortunately

[Asker]

I was just talking to her and I brought this up but she said that I friendzoned her? I thought she did it to me. Great communicators i guess

[Avicenna]

What did you respond?

[Asker]

She said how into me she was, but she responded a bit vague. Definitely not a no, but not a yes either

[Asker]

She asked if i was into her and i said yes

[Avicenna]

If you want to be her boyfriend, tell her that

[Asker]

Allrighty

[strateguy632]

You understood it.