Guys helppppp? I need to know something, give me your opinion pls?

[jupitor2003]

Do men think about the girl they were dating for more than 3 years or even a long time after they leave them get married to a girl after knowing her for a short period of time?

[Summeroflove]

If someone strings someone along for years basically future faking then immediately jump to the other extreme of marrying someone as fast as they can. The sad reality is that 9/10 they were using someone as a hold over. Because they never really wanted you they just wanted someone to fall back on if all else fails as well as have them benefits of being in a relationship without the commitment long term.

Now maybe people can at times date for a while and not be right but then you meet the one. I don’t know his brain or the situation but sadly many times someone’s been in a relationship behind your back for a while before they officially end things. Number one they’re cowards. Two they want to make sure it will work.

By that point they cheated multiple times usually before they find someone to run off with. But remember whoever cheats with someone will cheat on someone more times then not.

But I would assume. If that’s not the case and he just genuinely found someone else after the breakup. That yes obviously at times you would wonder about someone regardless if romantic feelings have been lost.

[FunkyMonkee]

I can't answer for all guys because I tend to have a very good and long-lasting memory so, I tend to recall loads of people in my life, even though I only knew them for a short time but I know there are loads of guys that just don't remember a girl they were with a few months after it happened. Or, they choose not to remember.

[Nikki1989]

Men, perhaps more so than women due to societal conditioning about emotional expression often fill this void with a new relationship.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes, sometimes they do, but that’s no guarantee the guy you like does

[ohsheeT]

No if they got married they moved on. You might pop In to there head for a brief second once or twice but no

[Zack-Bann]

Men pretend to move on fast but tend to have long standing feelings


Doesn’t mean we sleep and wake thinking about that long lost love


But she does creep into thought at times and we deal with it

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think that depends on how memorable that girl is, I can imagine if that woman is memorable, there can be moments that would at least wonder how that person is doing

[nl171]

I’m curious about the story here. But yes it’s common for a guy to think back on other long term relationships. At least for me

[Bighands]

They couldn't commit the long term relationship. I guy should know between 90 and 180 days. Longer and the guy is scared or fearful of something.

[DryGermanGuy]

That’s impossible to answer generally. 🤷‍♂️

[Avicenna]

Maybe, it’s possible

[jahaims]

That has nothing to do with gender

[LiamS95]

Yes i have thought of some girls for years

[vj0090]

Hey beautiful.. let connect

[Pterodon]

I think about past gfs from time to time

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that happens.

[fish5505_87]

Yes.