Guys I need your advise?

[Anonymous]

Everytime me and my boyfriend get into an argument, he goes the rest of the day not texting or calling me and if I try to reach him, he ignores me until I call him about 100 times. We do not live together as yet by the way. Lastnight after we got into our argument I tried calling him and he sent me to voicemail becsaue it showed he was on another call, when he finally did answer the phone he said he was talking to his dad. Sometimes I wonder if he talks to another woman when we get into a fight because he seems fine with ignoring me for the rest of the day he claims he ignores me because we are going to get No where in the argument and he doesn’t want to deal with the argument. What are your intakes ok this?

[RoseySarah]

My take is if it happens like that it's another woman. On the phone you can still text so he is ignoring you.

Guessing another woman online?

Guys usually do that to punish us. ignorong us making us feel unwanted

I'd check his phone sometime sounds so fishy if it happens regularly.

[Asker]

He’s gotten okay with not talking to me after we argue. And he acts like he doesn’t care. He wouldn’t call or text me but after like a day or so he would reach out

[Asker]

He always says he doesn’t want to argue with me

[Asker]

So he just ignores me

[Asker]

But ignoring me makes it worse

[RoseySarah]

He knows it makes it worse so he does it.

It's his way of slapping you in the face after! he knows it hurts you badly

[Asker]

So do you still think it’s another woman or he just ignores me to avoid possible other fights?

[RoseySarah]

Both!
He is pissed so he emotionally cheats!

[AviatorTom]

Arguments happen in a relationship. When they do, it's important to give both of you time to calm down. Calling him many times is a bad idea. Since you're not living together, wait a day or two, then try to contact him, if he hasn't contacted you. You can then talk about the argument if you want, make your apologies, or just put it behind you.

[Anonymous]

Somethings wrong w you if you’re blowing up his phone like that. I don’t see this relationship lasting. Eventually he’s going to get tired of it. When a person stops fighting or arguing back, crying, etc, it’s usually cause they’re checking out emotionally. They don’t care anymore.

[HaleyCatgirl]

I think it's a bit psychotic if you're trying to call him a hundred times after an argument you obviously don't know boundary and how to give people space and then you automatically assume he's talking to another girl maybe you should be talking to him about this instead of airing the dirty laundry on here

[Asker]

Since your 15, you clearly don’t know nothing about men. Why ask a man if he can possibly lie to your face. This is what you have friends for. See young girls like you are too naive so you wouldn’t know a man lying to you or telling you the truth.

[Asker]

You clearly never been to school enough to know that calling someone a 100 times is a metaphorical term sweety

[Asker]

Stay off of grown people stuff and go back to your own age shit

[HaleyCatgirl]

As I said psychotic. 😂 sadly you are beyond help

[HaleyCatgirl]

Based off this I see why he didn't want to talk to you. Based how you reacted to my answer I would not tell if that's how you treat him as well. Facts don't care about your feelings sweetheart 😘

[Asker]

😂 and you think I care about your feelings? Child bye ✌🏽

[HaleyCatgirl]

Oh I know you don't care about mine you obviously don't care about his either 😂😘

[Asker]

My boyfriend and you have nothing to do with each other. You’re just a random child I actually have a relationship with my boyfriend

[HaleyCatgirl]

how you're acting probably not for long 🤣🤣🤣

[HaleyCatgirl]

I never thought the grown woman would be more childish than the 15 year old

[Asker]

Girl you are 15! You and your boyfriend will NEVER last a lifetime! I give your relationship either a couple months to a year and then he will find another girl for himself. Watch and see 😂 you’re so naive

[HaleyCatgirl]

Have fun being insecure about this I have a boyfriend and unlike you we actually communicate I feel bad for your boyfriend you're going to self-destruct and destroy that relationship like so many other people I've seen and I'm sitting here smiling this whole time anyway I'm done talking to you, you may move on with your life

[HaleyCatgirl]

I have the biggest smile on my face due to this girl. I've never seen someone self-destruct and snap like a twig so quickly. This ladies and gentlemen is why you don't date possible sociopaths. I wouldn't tell if she actually did call him a hundred times and try to play it off as a metaphor when someone thinks a logically and points that out and then snaps like said twig. I feel real bad for her boyfriend because he has to put up with this thankfully I don't. Don't let insecurities take over your life call 1-800 Imma psycho for your free trial today it comes with pepper spray along with a restraining order cuz by God he's going to need one when she destroys this relationship. Real talk though it's hilarious when someone's pride blinds their logical thinking mixed in with insecurities and accusations towards the person they're supposed to love. You're sad and I hope you get the help you need anyway bye-bye 😘

[Asker]

Lmaoo you are funny. I left this silly little conversation with you a while ago and your still replying to yourself.

[HaleyCatgirl]

Oh Jesus Christ shut up already 😂 get over yourself babe

[AnnieSW]

Could be another woman or just a friend. Got knows what he's doing but something is off.

[Asker]

Do you believe the part where he said he was talking to his dad?

[AnnieSW]

Could be true yeah

[Bwcncnow]

Couples y’all ever talk to a very hung man or fantasy type stuff and are talking to a potential long term

[In_Trance]

stop arguing

[Asker]

Besides us stopping the arguing what do you think about how he acts after the argument?

[In_Trance]

I never realized there was a certain way someone was suppose to act after an argument.