Guys, I need advice. What do you think I should do?

[Sean92]

My wife doesn't trust me; she constantly watches me and suspects me of doing things I would never consider doing.

I have sat her down several times and talked to her, but she keeps doing it

I run a business, and whenever she comes to my store and sees me attending to a woman, her face instantly changes, and she won't speak to me the rest of the day

I don't know what else to do at this point and it's really bothering me a lot.

Divorce

Give her some time

[Anonymous]

Has she always been this way or did something change? You definitely need to talk to her about her trust issues, and ask if there’s anything that’s making her feel insecure in the relationship. At the same time you need to tell her that you’re bothered by her lack of trust bc you haven’t done anything wrong and it’s hurtful that she’s just accusing you and punishing you for nothing.

[Sean92]

Truth is she has been lovely and understanding until recently when she started acting this weird.
I've tried to make her understand that this trust issue she's developed recently is killing me, but she won't stop doing it.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay then something must’ve happened (and it could also have nothing to do with you). Maybe you haven’t been spending as much quality time together and she feels left out?

Honestly your feelings are valid, it gets exhausting if your partner keeps on suspecting your every move so I understand why you would feel that way. She should at least acknowledge that she’s hurting you by being overly insecure. What can you do to make her trust you tho?

[Sarahplus2]

You need to tell her again that you are not doing anything. In your business you deal with all kinds of people including women. She needs to get over it. Be respectful but more assertiveness.

[Kaytiee]

You first option should never be divorce (unless she killed ur kid, cheated etc) Since you've already spoken to her and she's not taking it seriously I would start with the 'threats' that sounds horrible but she literally will not listen, so I'd say if you dont stop then I cannot do this as I feel like im not valued and trusted as your partner, even when I've done nothing but love and re-assure you.

If that doesn't shock her into gear them id consider the divorce.

[kylee2437]

Divorce. If she can’t come to terms that the world population is mostly female and you need female clients to have a successful business, then that’s an insecurity she needs work on , on her own terms not disturbing your success

[FunkyMonkee]

I think you should ask someone for advice.

Sounds like a pretty bad case of paranoia.

[TheFlak38]

Not a problem when you're not married. She got you by the balls now and can do to you whatever she wants.

[Paul09]

If she can't trust you, what the point? Couples therapy?

[Anonymous]

Any kids?

[Sean92]

Not yet