The guy I’m into made this statement when we were discussing being together?

[Katyoung]

Updates

10 mo

So when discussing being together when he doesn’t want to title it a “relationship” he made this statement “ I I guess I like how you want to do better with your look and getting back to the gym”. Wth. I have no idea how to feel about this. Coming from my off and on “situationship” of 9 months. We have sex maybe 1 time a month to add some history. Love being together. Have tons of fun and cuddle all night but.

[Zack-Bann]

I love a good fuck buddy just as much as the next the guy


But it’s kinda pathetic that you’re hanging onto the words said by a dude who’s been fucking you once a month for the past year.


If he wanted to be more than that he would broach it.
Or even you would.


That’s the downside of situationships
We are too vulnerable as humans to be transactional for a long time


Especially when that post nut clarity hit


Every sex friend I ever had eventually ended it because she caught feelings and I wasn’t open to more


So now I know the concept is bogus.
There is no fixing it.
Just fuck while you can and say goodbye eventually

[Summeroflove]

Well be direct and ask him what he meant but this does seem like it could be using you for sex, using you for other benefits of a relationship such as emotional support as well as stringing you along in case nothing else works out he knows he can fall back on you. Am I saying this is true? No. I don’t know him. But it seems possible.

Especially if he’s subliminally telling you that maybe he’s looking for someone better then you.

[DishLady]

You’re just his fuck buddy.

[slatyb]

He's happy to spend time with you but he has something else in mind for his life partner. Or maybe he wouldn't make a long term promise to anyone. That happens when people are past starting a new family.

[RHK36]

You're 42 doing situationships and dating people at your gym. You can't figure out his motives at your age😊, just enjoy whatever you got because you're already cooked.

[shmeed]

Maybe he thinks you could be rated hotter on the points scale if you got a little more fit. I. e go from a 7 to a 9

[Ayaan00001]

He just want to be with you ( friend with benefits). Are you not interesting?

[nl171]

What’s the statement he made?

[Arcadian222]

What statement?

[wkhan_87]

What statement?