This guy I likesaid “jokingly” that I was his side chick and that we were in a situationship?

[Anonymous]

He jokes a lot but when I got upset he said that was a joke. I don’t know if I should believe it or not and now I’m confused and questioning everything.

[SueShe]

When a guy "jokes" about something like that, then you can rest assured that he is dead serious. Shy guys would use the joke excuse to make a statement and make it come across as being solely a joke or unserious statement. How false!

This guy sees you indeed as a side chick. A side chick but nothing more. Not a girlfriend, not something serious but only the kind of person that he needs to get rid of his excess of testosterone.

Once he got you where he wanted and that he got into your pants, he will soon find there is no longer an incentive to have you as a side chick since he got what he wanted and you lost what you did not want.

Beware of those kind of jokes. They are serious and you are the next victim.

[Asker]

We are having sex already

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Changiis07]

Some jokes tend to be true so yes be careful

[hahahmm]

He was testing the waters to see if you would be okay with his comment. This tells me that he's a coward & a liar. If you want a traditional relationship, check out my mytakes

[FilmGuy93]

That's not a joke; that's testing the waters. That's the kind of thing you say "as a joke" to feel out how the other person responds to the comment.

[dustybiker]

This.

[dustybiker]

Bad way to go about it, but true.

[FilmGuy93]

@dustybiker Yeah. It's unfortunate that people pull this garbage on each other. So many relationship issues can be solved with basic tenderness and respect.

[dustybiker]

Agree completely.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[FilmGuy93]

Happy to help

[Guy13]

He is not joking… You can not be 20s with this perspective. It is exactly what your instincts are telling you it is. Live with it and behave or get out and live free

[spartan55]

Questioning what? Are you having sex with him?

[Asker]

Yes, I am.

[Wise4myage]

I hope you felt insulted.

[Asker]

I did

[Wise4myage]

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