Why do some girls and women always push guys or men that like them AWAY?

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Like say this guy or man that’s liked a woman for YEARS but the lady doesn’t notice or pays any attention to them. They always chase after guys that are no good or don’t like them back. I understand they have no feelings back but don’t push them away or ignore them. That’s RUDE!

I have a friend and our classmates has the mega HOTS for her. I mean I can tell he likes her. He always sat next to her a LOT. He doesn’t sit with other girls much but HER. He always jumps in every time he tries to impress her. He texts her a lot more than he texts us, he ALWAYS asks her to go to the school dances and in high school he ALWAYS asks her to prom. He asked her twice. I keep tell her that he LIKES HER! She keeps telling me they’re just friends. FRIENDS. I was like, “Oh come on! You’re being insane. EVERYONE know! He OBVIOUSLY likes you. I can’t believe it took you YEARS to realize this. My best friend told her to grow up and stop ignoring the signs. She even said he’s been impressing her and he still does. Okay she keeps running after guys that are out of her league and guys that treat her so bad! She isn’t the hottest girl but she’s pretty. She is chubby and very tall but she’s kind, funny, smart and nurturing. She chases after fit guys or whatever but they don’t pay attention to her like he goes. She told me she isn’t attracted to her friend and frankly he isn’t the best looking guy. I told her I understand but he is kind, generous, treats you with respect and I can tell he’s improving himself and losing weight and focusing on his health. I caught her staring at him so many times. She did tell him she isn’t interested and shown hits.

How can I get my friend to wake up and realize that he is in LOVE with her?
She had so many guys come in and out of her life and douchbag boyfriends. She keeps meeting guys when she KNOWS he likes her. Shame!

she's tall (5’11)), big a chubby, he’s tall (6’1), big and chubby so it makes sense that she stays in her own league.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Reject you before you can reject me mindsets. There are people who will reject someone that they feel attraction to because they have been hurt and rejected as well as used before. So they’re rejecting someone before they reject them. Make sense?

Okay as for women who INTENTIONALLY pick men who are bad or harass men who aren’t interested like creepy stalkers. Are women who are usually just as bad as the men they’re choosing. They like the drama. Those girls are doing the good decent men out there a MASSIVE favor. Because being with a woman like that is miserable.

Later in life however. Most those women will want to settle down with a “good man” and will become bitter when they wonder where all the good men went. Most likely they married good women and stopped wasting their time on women who show them zero effort.

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

Because they don't look to Settle down, just wants Thills and $, that's all but they don't realise when "all these are finished", they will be the ones "crying in their pillows" that no man wants them because they are old, and that is where they Will become Cat or Dogs Ladies...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Bc sometimes the guy who claims to like you and flutters in your space is just a f-tart wasting your time and energy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Unless his sincerity translates to actions , it’s just empty words

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds like he needs to pursue a better women. This girl is clearly a headcase, and is trying to punch above her weight.

Anonymous · Answer

It really depends on her trauma.

jahaims · Answer

Unhealed trauma

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