What actually makes a guy stand out to you in the overwhelming sea of attention online (dating apps, Instagram, Reddit, etc.)?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always felt like I’m doing the right things. I work out almost daily, graduated in engineering, and genuinely try to be a good guy with strong morals and standards. But it still feels nearly impossible to even get noticed online, let alone build a real connection.

With how saturated these platforms are, what actually cuts through the noise for you?

[Nikki1989]

Nothing at all stands out in the real world. It is even less unlikely online.

[DishLady]

Manners and smarts.