What catches the attention of a guy?

[Anonymous]

[TheBMG]

Just that general, natural feeling you get when you begin a conversation or interaction. It can be many things. Mainly, for me, it's when she is relaxed and I can get her to smile. It's that snapshot in my mind that makes me decide if I'm going to continue to invest myself in this. All along with how she carries herself during all this. It's a combo of beauty, presence and the energy I feel when meeting her.

Maybe it sounds corny, but I love simple and cute. If she's got that, it's got my attention.

[Moose304]

What catches my attention is how a lady reacts to something embarrassing. I remember walking through a local park hand in hand with a gal and she did her best to hide it, but she farted. Hey, people fart! I turned and glanced at her and the look in her eyes made me laugh and when she saw my relaxed attitude she started laughing. Another thing I love to watch is when a lady is under intense stress and dealing with another person that's not helping solve the problem. I date a local TV reporter from time to time and for some reason, her debit card was declined. I helped her out! While under intense stress she stayed ladylike! At 63 this is what I notice today. Of course, a nice smile and laughing at my stupid jokes is nice, but we live in the real world, and sometimes "life" happens!

[Anonymous]

Female simps, man pleasers, sluts, p*rn stars, submissive women, any girl that shows her skin and pretends to be smart/flirtatious.
Because men want someone that compliments their perverted and dictator character. Pigs get bored with one decent girl. For them, bored means lack of variety in females. Pigs will still cheat even if you're all in one but any new slut or slave can draw his attention lifetime.

[HellGeist]

You sound like a feminist OOZING with bitterness. Who hurt you? Lmao.

Bottom line is most men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy.

Relationships of all kinds require give and take.

Most men who can (get better) will never tolerate a bitter, angry, radical feminist-minded woman.

They are huge pains in the ass. I've dealt with them at the workplace. They have a chip on their shoulder and want to dominate men. Nasty people when they get authority.

The Kamala Harris types, I call them.

Bossy and belligerent. Who needs that?

[Opinion Owner]

@HellGeist "men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy", then why DON'T they change their aggressive attitude and bad cheating attitude? They want a pleasant woman but most of them are the opposite. Why double standards?

[pink_and_inlove]

My dad says that what catched his attention from my mom was her hair and nails meanwhile my boyfriend said that it was my eyes. My eyes are just big plain brown eyes with eye bags but for some reason they’re beautiful to him

[mobiusforniner]

Guys are triggered by what is sometimes called the "hero" instinct. When a woman approaches him and asks for his help, his protection, or seeks his defense- a man feels valued and needed. This approach is very effective at catching a man's attention. In fact, it created significant problems for me since I'm already in a relationship. It's something that men are wired to do.

[HellGeist]

Too much to list.

Positive attention?

Well, A woman with a normal hair color, for starters.

Who is not a hardline feminist. Who is not overtly and overly hypergamist.

Virtue and loyalty.

One could almost write a thesis on this, but right now I can't be arsed, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anything out of normal, which in nature is a girl. The way she deals is "strange" to a guy.

Anyway, maybe also something that answers the curiousity but in a way that relates to his vision or way and approach of understading and realizing.

I wonder if this makes sense 😅

[drdank518]

Straight forwardness. No games. Intelligence. Either you know what the fuck you want out of a friendship or a relationship or you don't. Don't change your mind 5 times a day.

[Eeyore18]

Beauty, not just in the physical body but in the heart and personality. Good sense of humor and a cute smile. Maybe the way you put your hair back or up?

And for me... Ass (not to thicc) plus all those things I said above.

[Kaamraj]

What catches a mans attention without doing anything meaning passively, that would have to be one's body, figure, breasts and ass, well shapely legs, etc. Men are visual.

[LZPanzer]

Talk to us

Don't do that hinting thing women do

Say what you mean without having a double meaning behind it.

[LinaDaGoddess]

For my ex it was smiling, just being happy & positive..

[t-8900]

Well groomed, smile, healthy hair, conservative attire, a nice scent, eye contact.

[ManOnFire]

Women who show kindness and respect to everyone. Humility is super sexy to me.

[jess05]

I always seem to get a lot of attention when I wear yoga shorts or leggings 🤭

Not always the attention I want However 🤦🏼‍♀️😅

[LegendaryIcon]

Yessss, please do. I love that look, mmm, just thinking about it, gets me going

[Bhushan04]

When I see a girl first time, then I get's attracted by
Personality
Looks
Dressing Sense
The way she talks, smiles, if she had a dimple or any beauty spot (mole) that adds a complement to her!!

[Billlewis]

The first two things I look at are her feet and her butt.

[tartaarsaus]

Helicopters. When I see them, I always look at them

[Shiningtempest]

In my opinion, shared hobbies, compatible political & religious views, & shared lifestyle is what catches the attention of a guy

[Blackcupcake]

humor… being funny and bubbly has always worked for me

[Baredog69]

Ages 18 to 24? Beautiful face, nice butt nice body, nice butt, nice, body, beautiful legs, sometimes feet, did I mention butt?

[Cowboy6666]

If she flirts with me,
Talks sweet with me,
Loyal to me,
These few things catches my attention from a lady

[AimeeKyle]

It depends on the guys preference. For me it is long hair and pretty smile.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Positive body language, smiling, unique clothing and showing willingness to make a move

[Shy_Steve]

Smile at him that's the best way, But do it when he is the only one looking at you.

[kellytheman]

A beautiful smile with nice legs and a skirt makes me do a double take and catches my attention.

[Anonymous]

Umm, pumping gas alone? I never get hit on more than at the gas station. No matter what I'm wearing or doing, there is truly never a time I go where a man doesn't at least try to talk to me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Really? Wow.
I make a specific effort to hide on the other side of the pump so she can't see me.

[Paul09]

Look, smile, look again, smile again, approach him. That will be the day.

[Joshua0213]

Her face and humor i would say are most important to me

[Anonymous]

Be bold! Project confidence while maintaining humbleness.

[Sam85226]

If a woman doesn't wear a bra and her nipples are showing

[AkshiJanjua]

The most important is personality. Looks alone aren't enough

[Aerissa_Jade]

Smile at him, make eye contact and be friendly.

[Faerum]

Extended/frequent eye contact paired with a smile.

[boggboss]

How would someone get your attention

[FictionalCharacter]

Mostly nudes.
boobs
Ass

[sensible27]

A white dear should do the trick

[Browneye57]

YOUR level of attraction and desire for HIM.

[βιυεsκγs]

What do you mean by this out of curiosity?

[Browneye57]

@βιυεsκγs - The NUMBER ONE thing any guy looks for in any woman is HER level of attraction and desire for HIM. That is exactly what it means. Secondarily, everything else. Nothing else even comes close - your tits, your hair, your job, what music you like, your education, even your financial status. All are way down the list of importance. For without your attraction and desire, nothing is going anywhere fast.

If you feign disinterest he'll believe you. Trust me on this.

[βιυεsκγs]

So do you think girls should show a guy she likes him if she does? By talking with him more in social situations etc

[Browneye57]

@βιυεsκγs - If you don't he'll just think you're not interested and pursue someone else, one who does.

[βιυεsκγs]

I’ve always kind of thought showing interest looked kind of desperate but this has deffo made me want to be more forward, thank you!

[Browneye57]

@βιυεsκγs - I will tell you hands down, that if a woman is clear she wants to get with a guy, it's very difficult for him to turn her down. No matter what. Not her looks, her tits, her hair, her age. At least to a point - some guys are fussier than others.

If a woman wants to get with a man she'll break all the rules to do it.
If she doesn't she'll make up a new rule every day why she can't.

Women connect emotionally.
Guys connect physically.
This isn't to say guys don't have any emotions, but it's just a very different dynamic.

Even as an older guy, when I have social relationships with attractive women that I really like, I'm sexually attracted to them. It's just how our attraction is expressed, how it's felt. In this me-to culture we have to turn that off so as not to offend anybody.

A real man is a fucking machine. LOL It's the testosterone - it's they way they're wired.

[Yourfriend2021]

A cute face, smile and a sweet personality.

[Wise4myage]

Pretty eyes and a smile. :)

[Jay3344]

What kind of attention are you asking about?

[Asker]

Like romantic interest

[Jay3344]

Tough question because most men have individual interests and experiences that shape what they want.

[Anonymous]

I find big tits always works.

[boobliker]

Boobs smiles and eyes the gate if walking

[Ineverquit]

smile , legs and tits

[Wowboi]

Defo not being anonymous 😋

[bamesjond0069]

Big giant juicy morals.

[CreamySeed]

Musky pussy and urine scented jeans

[Nahid1707]

It depends on the setting but saying hi can

[TsAubreyKate]

Belligerent eye contact

[FR_Ruby]

sudden loud noises

[JesseJayNeak]

Be nice and don't be entitled

[paradiseonearth93]

Tits.

[expert_advice]

In this order.
Buttocks
Face
Boobs

[Anonymous]

A sneak peek at her panties :)

[Thedarkmooprince9]

I would say eyes or face

[tsmuwkenshii]

Shoulders, ankles, forearms, hair - skin, sex, etc

[eddie83]

Smile and blonde curly or wavy hair

[Adogdog]

Wave at us.

[Anonymous]

Big tits or a huge ass.

[Anonymous]

Showing skin... Always works lol

[Seangreen]

Depends on the guy

[Jamie05rhs]

A Christian T-shirt.

[noohair]

Eyes and a smile..

[jjj101010]

Depends on the guy