Just that general, natural feeling you get when you begin a conversation or interaction. It can be many things. Mainly, for me, it's when she is relaxed and I can get her to smile. It's that snapshot in my mind that makes me decide if I'm going to continue to invest myself in this. All along with how she carries herself during all this. It's a combo of beauty, presence and the energy I feel when meeting her.
Maybe it sounds corny, but I love simple and cute. If she's got that, it's got my attention.10 Reply
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What catches my attention is how a lady reacts to something embarrassing. I remember walking through a local park hand in hand with a gal and she did her best to hide it, but she farted. Hey, people fart! I turned and glanced at her and the look in her eyes made me laugh and when she saw my relaxed attitude she started laughing. Another thing I love to watch is when a lady is under intense stress and dealing with another person that's not helping solve the problem. I date a local TV reporter from time to time and for some reason, her debit card was declined. I helped her out! While under intense stress she stayed ladylike! At 63 this is what I notice today. Of course, a nice smile and laughing at my stupid jokes is nice, but we live in the real world, and sometimes "life" happens!
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yFemale simps, man pleasers, sluts, p*rn stars, submissive women, any girl that shows her skin and pretends to be smart/flirtatious.
Because men want someone that compliments their perverted and dictator character. Pigs get bored with one decent girl. For them, bored means lack of variety in females. Pigs will still cheat even if you're all in one but any new slut or slave can draw his attention lifetime.12 Reply- +1 y
You sound like a feminist OOZING with bitterness. Who hurt you? Lmao.
Bottom line is most men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy.
Relationships of all kinds require give and take.
Most men who can (get better) will never tolerate a bitter, angry, radical feminist-minded woman.
They are huge pains in the ass. I've dealt with them at the workplace. They have a chip on their shoulder and want to dominate men. Nasty people when they get authority.
The Kamala Harris types, I call them.
Bossy and belligerent. Who needs that?
Opinion Owner+1 y@HellGeist "men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy", then why DON'T they change their aggressive attitude and bad cheating attitude? They want a pleasant woman but most of them are the opposite. Why double standards?
+1 yMy dad says that what catched his attention from my mom was her hair and nails meanwhile my boyfriend said that it was my eyes. My eyes are just big plain brown eyes with eye bags but for some reason they’re beautiful to him
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+1 yGuys are triggered by what is sometimes called the "hero" instinct. When a woman approaches him and asks for his help, his protection, or seeks his defense- a man feels valued and needed. This approach is very effective at catching a man's attention. In fact, it created significant problems for me since I'm already in a relationship. It's something that men are wired to do.
10 ReplyToo much to list.
Positive attention?
Well, A woman with a normal hair color, for starters.
Who is not a hardline feminist. Who is not overtly and overly hypergamist.
Virtue and loyalty.
One could almost write a thesis on this, but right now I can't be arsed, lol.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAnything out of normal, which in nature is a girl. The way she deals is "strange" to a guy.
Anyway, maybe also something that answers the curiousity but in a way that relates to his vision or way and approach of understading and realizing.
I wonder if this makes sense 😅00 ReplyStraight forwardness. No games. Intelligence. Either you know what the fuck you want out of a friendship or a relationship or you don't. Don't change your mind 5 times a day.
30 ReplyBeauty, not just in the physical body but in the heart and personality. Good sense of humor and a cute smile. Maybe the way you put your hair back or up?
And for me... Ass (not to thicc) plus all those things I said above.10 ReplyWhat catches a mans attention without doing anything meaning passively, that would have to be one's body, figure, breasts and ass, well shapely legs, etc. Men are visual.
20 ReplyTalk to us
Don't do that hinting thing women do
Say what you mean without having a double meaning behind it.10 Reply
+1 yFor my ex it was smiling, just being happy & positive..
20 ReplyWell groomed, smile, healthy hair, conservative attire, a nice scent, eye contact.
20 ReplyWomen who show kindness and respect to everyone. Humility is super sexy to me.
10 ReplyI always seem to get a lot of attention when I wear yoga shorts or leggings 🤭
Not always the attention I want However 🤦🏼♀️😅11 Reply- +1 y
Yessss, please do. I love that look, mmm, just thinking about it, gets me going
When I see a girl first time, then I get's attracted by
Personality
Looks
Dressing Sense
The way she talks, smiles, if she had a dimple or any beauty spot (mole) that adds a complement to her!!20 ReplyThe first two things I look at are her feet and her butt.
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+1 yHelicopters. When I see them, I always look at them
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+1 yIn my opinion, shared hobbies, compatible political & religious views, & shared lifestyle is what catches the attention of a guy
20 Reply
s +1 yhumor… being funny and bubbly has always worked for me
10 ReplyAges 18 to 24? Beautiful face, nice butt nice body, nice butt, nice, body, beautiful legs, sometimes feet, did I mention butt?
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+1 yIf she flirts with me,
Talks sweet with me,
Loyal to me,
These few things catches my attention from a lady20 ReplyIt depends on the guys preference. For me it is long hair and pretty smile.
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+1 yPositive body language, smiling, unique clothing and showing willingness to make a move
10 ReplySmile at him that's the best way, But do it when he is the only one looking at you.
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+1 yA beautiful smile with nice legs and a skirt makes me do a double take and catches my attention.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yUmm, pumping gas alone? I never get hit on more than at the gas station. No matter what I'm wearing or doing, there is truly never a time I go where a man doesn't at least try to talk to me.
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Really? Wow.
I make a specific effort to hide on the other side of the pump so she can't see me.
Look, smile, look again, smile again, approach him. That will be the day.
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+1 yHer face and humor i would say are most important to me
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yBe bold! Project confidence while maintaining humbleness.
20 ReplyIf a woman doesn't wear a bra and her nipples are showing
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+1 yThe most important is personality. Looks alone aren't enough
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+1 ySmile at him, make eye contact and be friendly.
20 ReplyExtended/frequent eye contact paired with a smile.
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. How would someone get your attention
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+1 yMostly nudes.
boobs
Ass00 Reply
+1 yA white dear should do the trick
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+1 yYOUR level of attraction and desire for HIM.
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@βιυεsκγs - The NUMBER ONE thing any guy looks for in any woman is HER level of attraction and desire for HIM. That is exactly what it means. Secondarily, everything else. Nothing else even comes close - your tits, your hair, your job, what music you like, your education, even your financial status. All are way down the list of importance. For without your attraction and desire, nothing is going anywhere fast.
If you feign disinterest he'll believe you. Trust me on this. - +1 y
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@βιυεsκγs - I will tell you hands down, that if a woman is clear she wants to get with a guy, it's very difficult for him to turn her down. No matter what. Not her looks, her tits, her hair, her age. At least to a point - some guys are fussier than others.
If a woman wants to get with a man she'll break all the rules to do it.
If she doesn't she'll make up a new rule every day why she can't.
Women connect emotionally.
Guys connect physically.
This isn't to say guys don't have any emotions, but it's just a very different dynamic.
Even as an older guy, when I have social relationships with attractive women that I really like, I'm sexually attracted to them. It's just how our attraction is expressed, how it's felt. In this me-to culture we have to turn that off so as not to offend anybody.
A real man is a fucking machine. LOL It's the testosterone - it's they way they're wired.
+1 yA cute face, smile and a sweet personality.
20 Reply- 1.5K opinions shared on Flirting topic.
+1 yPretty eyes and a smile. :)
20 Reply What kind of attention are you asking about?
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Asker+1 yLike romantic interest
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI find big tits always works.
20 ReplyBoobs smiles and eyes the gate if walking
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+1 ysmile , legs and tits
10 ReplyDefo not being anonymous 😋
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+1 yBig giant juicy morals.
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+1 yMusky pussy and urine scented jeans
00 Reply307 opinions shared on Flirting topic. It depends on the setting but saying hi can
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+1 yBelligerent eye contact
10 Replysudden loud noises
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+1 yBe nice and don't be entitled
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+1 yTits.
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+1 yIn this order.
Buttocks
Face
Boobs10 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yA sneak peek at her panties :)
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+1 yI would say eyes or face
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+1 yShoulders, ankles, forearms, hair - skin, sex, etc
00 ReplySmile and blonde curly or wavy hair
00 ReplyWave at us.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yBig tits or a huge ass.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yShowing skin... Always works lol
00 ReplyDepends on the guy
00 Reply- 495 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
+1 yA Christian T-shirt.
10 Reply Eyes and a smile..
10 ReplyDepends on the guy
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