What catches the attention of a guy?

[Anonymous]

[TheBMG]

Just that general, natural feeling you get when you begin a conversation or interaction. It can be many things. Mainly, for me, it's when she is relaxed and I can get her to smile. It's that snapshot in my mind that makes me decide if I'm going to continue to invest myself in this. All along with how she carries herself during all this. It's a combo of beauty, presence and the energy I feel when meeting her.

Maybe it sounds corny, but I love simple and cute. If she's got that, it's got my attention.

[Moose304]

What catches my attention is how a lady reacts to something embarrassing. I remember walking through a local park hand in hand with a gal and she did her best to hide it, but she farted. Hey, people fart! I turned and glanced at her and the look in her eyes made me laugh and when she saw my relaxed attitude she started laughing. Another thing I love to watch is when a lady is under intense stress and dealing with another person that's not helping solve the problem. I date a local TV reporter from time to time and for some reason, her debit card was declined. I helped her out! While under intense stress she stayed ladylike! At 63 this is what I notice today. Of course, a nice smile and laughing at my stupid jokes is nice, but we live in the real world, and sometimes "life" happens!

[Anonymous]

Female simps, man pleasers, sluts, p*rn stars, submissive women, any girl that shows her skin and pretends to be smart/flirtatious.
Because men want someone that compliments their perverted and dictator character. Pigs get bored with one decent girl. For them, bored means lack of variety in females. Pigs will still cheat even if you're all in one but any new slut or slave can draw his attention lifetime.

[HellGeist]

You sound like a feminist OOZING with bitterness. Who hurt you? Lmao.

Bottom line is most men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy.

Relationships of all kinds require give and take.

Most men who can (get better) will never tolerate a bitter, angry, radical feminist-minded woman.

They are huge pains in the ass. I've dealt with them at the workplace. They have a chip on their shoulder and want to dominate men. Nasty people when they get authority.

The Kamala Harris types, I call them.

Bossy and belligerent. Who needs that?

[Opinion Owner]

@HellGeist "men don't want women with bad attitudes or baggage or masculine, aggressive energy", then why DON'T they change their aggressive attitude and bad cheating attitude? They want a pleasant woman but most of them are the opposite. Why double standards?

[pink_and_inlove]

My dad says that what catched his attention from my mom was her hair and nails meanwhile my boyfriend said that it was my eyes. My eyes are just big plain brown eyes with eye bags but for some reason they’re beautiful to him

[mobiusforniner]

Guys are triggered by what is sometimes called the "hero" instinct. When a woman approaches him and asks for his help, his protection, or seeks his defense- a man feels valued and needed. This approach is very effective at catching a man's attention. In fact, it created significant problems for me since I'm already in a relationship. It's something that men are wired to do.

[HellGeist]

Too much to list.

Positive attention?

Well, A woman with a normal hair color, for starters.

Who is not a hardline feminist. Who is not overtly and overly hypergamist.

Virtue and loyalty.

One could almost write a thesis on this, but right now I can't be arsed, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anything out of normal, which in nature is a girl. The way she deals is "strange" to a guy.

Anyway, maybe also something that answers the curiousity but in a way that relates to his vision or way and approach of understading and realizing.

I wonder if this makes sense 😅

[drdank518]

Straight forwardness. No games. Intelligence. Either you know what the fuck you want out of a friendship or a relationship or you don't. Don't change your mind 5 times a day.

[Eeyore18]

Beauty, not just in the physical body but in the heart and personality. Good sense of humor and a cute smile. Maybe the way you put your hair back or up?

And for me... Ass (not to thicc) plus all those things I said above.

[Kaamraj]

What catches a mans attention without doing anything meaning passively, that would have to be one's body, figure, breasts and ass, well shapely legs, etc. Men are visual.

[LZPanzer]

Talk to us

Don't do that hinting thing women do

Say what you mean without having a double meaning behind it.

[LinaDaGoddess]

For my ex it was smiling, just being happy & positive..

[t-8900]

Well groomed, smile, healthy hair, conservative attire, a nice scent, eye contact.

[jess05]

I always seem to get a lot of attention when I wear yoga shorts or leggings 🤭

Not always the attention I want However 🤦🏼‍♀️😅

[LegendaryIcon]

Yessss, please do. I love that look, mmm, just thinking about it, gets me going

[ManOnFire]

Women who show kindness and respect to everyone. Humility is super sexy to me.

[Bhushan04]

When I see a girl first time, then I get's attracted by
Personality
Looks
Dressing Sense
The way she talks, smiles, if she had a dimple or any beauty spot (mole) that adds a complement to her!!

[Billlewis]

The first two things I look at are her feet and her butt.

[tartaarsaus]

Helicopters. When I see them, I always look at them

[Shiningtempest]

In my opinion, shared hobbies, compatible political & religious views, & shared lifestyle is what catches the attention of a guy

[Blackcupcake]

humor… being funny and bubbly has always worked for me

[Baredog69]

Ages 18 to 24? Beautiful face, nice butt nice body, nice butt, nice, body, beautiful legs, sometimes feet, did I mention butt?

[Cowboy6666]

If she flirts with me,
Talks sweet with me,
Loyal to me,
These few things catches my attention from a lady

[AimeeKyle]

It depends on the guys preference. For me it is long hair and pretty smile.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Positive body language, smiling, unique clothing and showing willingness to make a move