Girls, What catches your attention about a guy first?

[Jake113]

Ignoring personality! His face? His muscles? His athleticism? His height? His voice? His hands?

What kinds of compromises do you think you'd make or couldn't make?

For example: he has a nice face, hair, and voice but he is the same height as you. Still ok? Or he is really athletic and tall but he doesn't have a nice face or he is bald. What are you priorities and does any quality not really matter that much?

[Assi2k]

Lool I was gonna say personality but you got me!


First thing I notice is face. But I can look at a handsome ass guy and not care cuz of an ugly personality.


Same way, if he has a cute face, and he’s my height (I’m 5ft), I’d still be attracted to him but I never met a guy that’s my height before.


There was a guy I had a crush on in HS who was 5’3, and he was finee handsome!😍 I think he had more chemistry with my friend though lol

[blupflup]

LOL age 91

[bgreek]

The women forgot to mention a guys wallet

[jennifer_bloom]

I notice his fitness, his stomach and his nose and cheekbones first.

[J3LueMooN]

no girl said you "heart"
buy all girls want " love, soul, he love me always, heart"
:(
what you expect is what you get.

[Kisama]

The guy is asking specifically about the physical side of attraction, not the chemistry.

[J3LueMooN]

@Kisama Didn't you say that his physical feature is not important to me? Or do you want chemical properties as well as physical properties. You are all the same, varya. Satan is in the 1st place, you women are in the 2nd.
Nobody should expect love.

[Kisama]

The man who posted this question is specifically asking for the physical aspect that appeals to women, not the chemistry.

You seem to misunderstand what is being said.

[J3LueMooN]

@Kisama kisama

[Kisama]

@J3LueMooN J3LueMooN

[J3LueMooN]

@Kisama I wanted to say its of meaning as japannese :Dbut never mind. u did not understand that.

[Kisama]

If I didn't understand that then why did I bother with the username?

[Leonharted]

Why would you invite me, a guy, to answer a question for girls?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

His eyes (especially if green) followed by his voice. If he has a great sense of humor, he already has a great headstart

[Jake113]

What kind of voice? Like a soft voice or a rough growly voice. Deep or or moderate? If he can sing?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Usually a deeper, authorative voice does it.

[InventorofWarp]

@jake113 As a singer I'm curious to hear the answer to that one.
I've spent years developing my vocal range though so I can start in my low speaking voice, like I typically do for country or folk songs or some alt rock/synthwave songs and then hit higher falsetto notes for more haze pop/lighter synth/rock styles.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I do character voices myself so I have a lot of range as well.

[InventorofWarp]

Character voices? Interesting, what's that?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Just doing different voices ranging from everything from Gollum to Elmo. I intend to add new ones next year, but I just haven't been practicing much lately.

[Greedier]

His face catches the attention first.
I think that'd be a little weird if the guy is shorter than me

[Kisama]

Basically what makes a man, a man.

Bigger hands, beard, muscles etc. Height doesn't matter in my perspective, I've been previously attracted to men smaller than height.

[Jake113]

Nice. There's a cut off point for height though, right? Would a guy being 5'0 seriously not matter?

[Kisama]

I'm 5'3.

[InventorofWarp]

Bigger hands: At 6'8 my hands are twice the size of the average man's to begin with. Check.
Beard: Well... I personally prefer to be clean shaven. But, even still, when I do grow a beard it's less a beard and more stubble. I'm not really a particularly hairy guy. I don't shave my chest, I just don't grow chest hair.
Muscles: Thank fuck I started working out last year and I'm very proudly ripped. Having said that, I'm still a pretty naturally lean and thin guy. But muscle definition in the shoulders and chest and abs definitely visible.

etc? I dunno what else it is but I'm curious.

[Jake113]

Is the cut off your height and up?

[Dinklex3]

His face. Face face face.
Then his arms, build, hands.
I don't really compromise. I just take everything in.

[Jake113]

Well, by compromise I don't mean settle, but no one is perfect so which imperfections do you care less about and which do you care more about?

[Dinklex3]

I don't really think of imperfections.
If I'm attracted to you, then I'm attracted to you, and i don't think of your physical characteristics as "imperfections". I just look at them as a whole.
I like guys who are muscular. If i date a guy who isn't then i don't think if that as an imperfection. He's just not a gym rat.

[Jake113]

Interesting. So basically you just rank guys as attractive vs unattractive? If you thought two guys were attractive and you couldn't know which one to date how would you pick?

[Dinklex3]

Yup.
Then of course I go to vibe and personality.
Having that synergy with someone on top of their looks makes them extra attractive.

[CarolinaJones]

His eyes and face are what I notice first. Yeah, that would fine, as long as he's taller than me. No, I personally don't like baldness.

[LinaDaGoddess]

The way he’s dressed, if he’s smiling, the way he walks, the way he smells.

[Aerissa_Jade]

How well he dresses, is a good sign of how he takes care of himself.

[SiberFox]

In highschool girls told me, Eyes first, butt second.

[Seangreen]

Why the fuck did you invite me to answer this shit I don't fucking know

[Flower7]

His face would catch my attention first.

[linka_pat307]

The handsomeness and the physical appearance

[Dchrls78104]

Wallet first, as far as I've seen.

[whistlingwh0res]

Outfit

[Jake113]

What kind of outfit?

[Cleo12345]

His teeth

[Gwenhwyfar]

Face and eyes

[NathanDavis]

my teeth

[Anonymous]

The won’t tell you but his wallet and his status.

[RebeccaBI2000]

Smile and eyes.

[XXblack88]

his face and eyes

[Sorue]

His physique

[Brianna0802]

His eyes and height

[Jake113]

Would you date a 5'9 guy if he was hot or is that too short?

[Brianna0802]

I would. I’m 5’6” so as long as he’s a least a little bit taller than me. I just tend to notice taller guys more but height is not a necessarily a dealbreaker. Not being able to handle a dry sense of humor is though. :)

[Jake113]

Yes I love dry humor, especially dark dry humor. No one gets it when I make a joke a lot of times they just think I'm a weird sociopath :c

[hazel266]

his hair

[dazzinu69]

What about the hair?

[hazel266]

@dazzinu69 nothing in particular, just how it looks overall

[Anonymous]

His face and body