Girls, What catches your attention first when crushing on a guy, Appearance/Personality?

[SteamBuns]

[ksrkatie]

What catches my eye first is what I can see so, looks. However, as I get to know someone I decide if I like them. Many guys I befriend first and get to know their personality and what not and if I like that then I will start crushing. These are the guys I REALLY fall hard for. There are other guys that I fall for because I think they are hot but I am less likely to try and pursue anything with them.

[emilyyy23k]

Appearance first. Personality comes second, so if he's hot but has a shitty personality then I won't go further. But sometimes if im not at first attracted to a guy, but I fall in love with his personality then his appearance suddenly becomes more attractive to me :) weird how it works.

[SteamBuns]

SO what if I have both Appearance and personality?

[emilyyy23k]

then you're good to go!

[Linea143]

Personality! I have had a crush on this guy Logan for about 2 years, and I like him because he is the kindest guy I've ever met. He is sweet, funny, smart, and just flat out amazing. His smile is breath taking too, but I noticed him because of his kind ways about him 😊

[existing_not_living]

Honestly it's a combination of both. I'm not friends with unattractive people. That sounds mean, but usually people befriend people that they find attractive whether or not they are actually attracted to them. I'm not saying all of my friends are super attractive, but the majority of them are pretty good-looking. I only crush on friends. For me, of course looks will catch my eye, but personality catches my eye at the same time.

[Anonymous]

appearance but it depends whether or not i know him. if i only see a guy around but don't know his personality i'll only be crushing on his looks. if i like his personality though he'll automatically become more attractive. i'm in this position where i'm crushing on a guy i don't really know just cuz he's hot but i also have a crush on a guy because his personality is amazing

[Anonymous]

Well his looks catch my attention first and he doesn't have to be really hot, just kinda cute. However, I only like a guy if I like his personality because you can't have a good relationship if the guy is a total jerk. Personality is way more important.

[Anonymous]

1. Humor
2. Sense of adventure
3. Open mindedness/Confidence
4. Weird
5. Protective/
6. Big, brown, friendly, and warm eyes
7. Competetive or athletic
8. A nice smile
9. Nice hair

[dragonfly25]

It depends. There's been times when I like a really hot guy but I'm immediately put off when he talks to me and he is a jerk. I'd say personality is more important. In fact when some one is genuinely nice the person becomes more attractive.

[Amy_a23]

Personality definitely. Then I admire their looks and the appearances. Yeah i'll be attracted to a guy if he's good looking but that doesn't necessarily mean I have feelings for him.

[anonumosGirl]

personality, i wouldn't mind how he looks

[SteamBuns]

So you get to know a guy before liking him?

[SteamBuns]

His appearance doesn't draw your attention at all?