What really attracts a man?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

A beautiful girl , with a good heart and personality, a girl that understands the foundation of a relationship, a girl that makes me feel wanted and valued and appreciated, a girl that stands by my side the same way she wants me standing by hers. A girl that wants to bring happiness into my life , not
Misery. A girl that isn’t selfish that doesn’t only care about herself. She stays loyal and faithful to me the same way I will do for her , intimacy and affection between us is amazing and we are both on the same page with things. We both give to each other to receive from each other , Respect , trust and honesty. That’s a girl I would try to keep by my side as much as possible

[dsrice071966]

A good personality, trustworthy, integrity, loyal and kind.

[DishLady]

Depends on the guy. Many are attracted by a combination of looks and personality — sometimes one a little more than the other.

[blondfrog]

How come I always imagine that your a referee for a big sporting event?

[DishLady]

It’s the dress…

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Authenticity and compassion.

[Anonymous]

The short, true, but unhelpful answer is it depends on the guy.

Some men are all after beauty but just being beautiful on the outside a girl from being a hot to a defiantly not based off her behavior. Yes, there are men who will have sex with her but those aren’t the type of guys who would make a good partner.

A woman whose genuine, kind, nurturing, funny, smart, wise, brave, courageous, strong, good hearted, fun, adventurous (no not in the bedroom), just at the end of the day it comes down to the heart.

For people who base their relationships around sex. The sex gets boring. They’ve done everything under the sun and it isn’t enough to get them off anymore. They don’t have a true genuine bond. Especially if they do really bad stuff.

Pink anons who say “tits and ass” have a very sexist view of men and I bet you I could assume who said that and why she’s anonymous. Women who have this way of thinking will attract men, but it will be the wrong kind of men. On one hand players, douchebags, fuck boys, and the list goes on. On the other hand it’s gonna attract simps, weirdos, losers, and the list goes on. Men who are of genuine value are repulsed by that behavior. Just like if a man has sex with Whores but wants to marry a virgin. A woman whose genuinely saving herslef would be disgusted.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Good read, thanks !

[Opinion Owner]

@Maybe_Maybe_not thank you

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Exactly. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

@el_Te_de_la_Rosa you’re welcome

[thearchjoker]

It depends on the man, certain combos may work better combined than when alone while two traits may be attractive by themselves but when a girl has both it becomes unattractive.

While the specifics change from man to man here are things that most men are into. Yet even fore these are exceptions. This list is in no specific order.

.1. Low body counts

.2. Healthy women

.3. Boobs, Ass, Thighs, Beautiful face (an underrated one that men don't think of),

.4. That she's shorter than the man in question

.5. Loyalty

.6. Respect

.7. Kindness

.8. Frugality (as in not being wasteful)

.9. Being interesting and/or enjoyable to be around

[Keyboardkat]

I've posted this elsewhere before, but sometimes a big attraction for me can be her laugh! If a girl has a great laugh, I almost don't care that much what she looks like; to me she's beautiful. For me, this can be one of a girl's sexiest and most endearing traits, especially if there's something unique or unusual about her laugh, which she can't control, even if she hates it! I know I'm not the only guy who feels this way! It's part of her essence, part of what makes her who she is!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Many contradicting things, depending on each man, as you can read on this page. As for me, I am attracted to, among other things, wit, and a lot. Some call this sapioromantism, but I think it doesn't depict the complete picture, its just a start

[RebelinSteel]

It can be a load of things, everyone is different on what attracts them, not only that I know that certain things will attract me at different times, it might be a laugh, how intelligent, how funny, how sarcastic, their fitness, or just that it’s a challenge. This all sort of gets pointless as my Demi side kicks in and there is not any physical attraction (sexual) and it all waits for that emotional side to catch up lol.

[Caroline91]

Hmmmm...

[U4ea0]

A woman needs to meet three basic requirements most men have:

1. She needs to know how to shutup/easy to get along with.

2. She needs to sit on a nice ass

3. She can't be a hoe

If she can meet those three basic requirements, a millionaire will come along and pick her up off of her face.

[TadCurious]

Kindness
Friendliness
Courtesy
Sense of humor

[Kelley1]

This attracts men?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/HlJH8BFbj8c

[MysticDevice]

Independent thought

Quirks

Happiness

And energy. Not like she isn't tired, as in she has a good energy.

[Fireguy17]

It can be different for everyone.
For some it can be boobs, your butt, legs, hair color, personality, how you are dressed, your smile, eyes, all sorts of things, or combination of things.

[Makeushiver]

Whomever the subject of that photo is has no concerns about attracting men, She's both beautiful and sexy. A complete turn on fully dressed as in pic. If it's you, where are you?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You forgot to tell her about the shivering ! Its not too late, be quick lol

[PatKirby]

Loyalty, respect, integrity, and truthfulness.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

[RingOfFire]

Physical appearance and depth for me. I like a woman who is complicated and deep.

It is so rare to find a woman who has both of these traits to my liking.

[Unit1]

Nice and pretty girls

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Is it a V-tuber advertisement? lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

Kindness. Personality. Respect.
Body language ;)

[Sharkstealth]

A cock tease really attracts me. A woman that will sit with me and talk for hours about anything.

[Yannae]

Everything about that person that makes them them can be attractive or a repellant

[edmwarrior]

we are first attracted by physical beauty, then when we get to know you, personality

[Surferboi_02]

I'd say a girl who shows confidence, strength and compassion. A girl that gives off wife material vibes.

[SicilianSlice2]

Having something to offer other than a pretty face and sex.

[jack1924]

Personality, if there is no personality everything else is nonsense

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Being playful, if you don't mind, @edmwarrior above your comment, seems to have a different opinion than you about what are men, and I wonder if you could agree, for the fun of it

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not
No, I don’t agree with that because I won’t walk around looking at each attractive girl out there, this would be creepy. If I start to like someone that’s because they are unique in there personality not because they are attractive.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Fine, the word attractive might be a bit ambiguous though, but I get your point, you mean physically attractive. You're saying that anything physical is rather on the side, unimportant, or even ignored?

[edmwarrior]

I don't stare at every beautiful woman. How would you know they're beautiful in the first place if you're not looking? It's called situational awareness.

I once started to like a woman just from being around her often. Then she started to look attractive to me only after. So i'm not disagreeing with you.

However, what about cold approaches? Men don't walk up to random women based on personality

[jack1924]

@edmwarrior well, I am sorry if I was rude
I am basing my answer on my personal experience, my three girlfriends was the same situation as the one you mentioned “ I once started to like a woman just from being around her often. Then she started to look attractive to me only after”

[edmwarrior]

no not at all, no rudeness detected at all. we are all different and it's a beautiful thing

[jack1924]

Ex girlfriends*

[edmwarrior]

personality is the best way though, since looks do fade. we can argue that some age like fine wine, but let's be real

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Eeey, I'm glad it turned out so well, there was a bridge between both of your views, I like that 👍

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

eeeey how do you get the right to insert gifs into replies, you just pasted it, I'm gonna try lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

ah okay, there is a level wall, I must be level 3 😩

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not try it it’s fun lol

[jack1924]

But it isn’t copy, paste no

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'll be back when I'll be level 3, you will be all gifed !

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

This is unfair, I will destroy you, I swear 🤣

[jack1924]

@Maybe_Maybe_not

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

HA ! Look at me now as I have the power to gif you !

[beefcakebradybatson]

Long hair, big eyes, a great bottom and legs and BIG BOOBS !!!

[Crazzyyworld]

submissiveness, caring, kind, loving, honesty

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Submissiveness? other attributes you named being pretty common read, but submissiveness why so?

[Crazzyyworld]

Men like to be the boss

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You believe this does affect all men? Or a majority of men maybe?

[Anonymous]

What type of man? Different fish require different bait. Any woman can attract a man.

[Cheerfull009]

Pretty face, sexy body, submissive attitude

[_Senorita_]

I don't know cuz I'm a woman 😂

[MasterKS]

@_Senorita_ like the honesty! LOL

[ManInChains]

Depends on the man’s individual interests

[Anonymous]

Tits and ass.

[paledreams]

A woman who is upfront herself ♀️

[jordynthedecayer99]

Personality mostly but some men goes for looks

[woahhh152]

For me it's her personality then looks

[jahaims]

Different people have different preferences

[Anonymous]

great hair, pretty face, hard body

[DtMe89]

Intelligence

[Anonymous]

it starts with p and ends with y

[Grond21]

A woman

[LiamJHayden]

Integrity.

[scott04sa22]

Trust and respect

[MasterKS]

sexy body!