I don't think anything will happen, it sounds like he's afraid of commitment so he'd need a huge personality change and those are very rare, especially if he's been the way he is for awhile
I don't blame you for having kids with him, things happen, also it's normal to want kids with people we're attracted to and you might've thought he'd commit to you, either way it's all good in the end cause you have an awesome kid
I'd say you could do one of two things with him
1. Don't offer any intimacy if you want to form a strong relationship, you're basically going to train him to be the guy you want and his reward is intimacy
2. Be freely intimate with him but also accept nothing will happen beyond that and look for a better guy to raise your kid with and have more kids with
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"He’s not really the commitment type, and he also has trouble opening up."
All said and done. And getting pregnant by this guy too. Classic and very popular among women! Me wants to understand how this keeps happening. What magic do these guys utilize to turn women into single mothers.
But to answer your question: Sex makes him happy.
But I'll say it again.
"He’s not really the commitment type"
All said and done.
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Attracts? It is different for every man. Me? A kind soul, someone who knows where she wants to be in the next ten years and is already doing something about it. Then all the feminine things women are blessed with.
I think you should set him free. Focus on you and your daughter.I think the best thing to do is tell him what you told us. If you take some of the pressure off, he will start to open up and eventually want a commitment.
Some guys need to know you are there for them and live in the now... your not always moving forward for the specific purpose of a commitment.
I think it's time you wake up and smell the fucking coffee. You have a kid together and he still doesn't want a relationship. It's time to move on. Does the guy even spend any time with the kid? Why the hell would you have a kid with a shit bag like that in the first place?
Like so many girls, you are addicted to chasing fuck boy Chad's. Deciding to get pregnant by a Chad will not make him commit to you, he has too many options. Yes, you captured his seed (which was your choice), but you will never hold on to him. Your next step will be to weaponise your child but that won't work either.
She knows. And if she doesn't, then she doesn't get me. Some other woman does.
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