Girls, what attracts you to a man?

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k2ocon · Accepted Answer

1. Style is a must! Too often men have no style when that's the key to finding a girl. You can be as ugly or as hot... but if you have no style then I probably won't be attracted to you. Seriously, I've found that if a guy isn't necessarily physically very attractive wears a suit or well-put together outfit & has great confidence the attraction goes way up.
2. Respect. Pay for your date, open the door for her, LISTEN to her, and be a gentlemen. I've gone on first dates with guys who have not payed the bill, have not opened the door, talked the whole time about themselves, have told the cashier to "split the bill" without asking my opinion and outright embarassing me... it's not cool at all! You wanna impress your lady? Show some respect. A lot of girls won't wanna admit it because they don't wanna look like they live in the past but they downright love when a guy does these things.
3. Personality. Don't open up too much if you're just starting to know the girl... and don't be a total jerk who thinks he's so macho & cool. Be loving, be kind, makes jokes, and act like a human being. Be sweet.
4. Finally, know boundaries. Ask a girl if you can kiss her if you're just starting to know her. Very attractive. Ask her if you can spend the night with her. Ask her what she wants to do. ALWAYS ASK. Do not assume. I went on a first date with a guy and he automatically assumed he could have a makeout session in a public setting and pulled me in without asking. Not hot. I also said to him that I wanted to go to a certain restaurant & he said "no, I want to go to the other restaurant" & complained to me for 5 minutes. Very unattractive. Know boundaries people. It changea everything!

Moimaris · Accepted Answer

I’m not instantly attracted to a masculine body. I’m more attracted to a masculine mindset and way of of a man. The way he walks or talks. For every woman there are different attraction points but for me it is a guy that acts masculine, not matcho but just not to feminine

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Physically, I like good posture and tall height and a masculine face that is aggressive but glamorous. Socially, I like a guy who is willing to sacrifice his time and energy and emotions or money to date me, likes to tell inside jokes, appreciates me when I say or do something nice, has a happy attitude towards life, and never disrespects me.

TheNamesReiMech · Answer

Me personally, I’m attracted to both men and women. But when it comes to men, I like when a guy makes me feel small. Not emotionally, but like, to hold me. I’ve always been insecure about my height and being a bit taller than I like. And I’ve always love the thought of having someone to make u feel happy, and be your best self.

And as clique as it sounds, I also like a great personality. Someone kind and not over the top. Not someone who shows me off government their friends as a possession, but someone who could say they’re proud of being my boyfriend.

Once again, this is my opinion.

Riley000 · Answer

Intelligence. I don't need him to be a genius, but rather able to understand and contribute to the conversations that I tend to have with friends.

Sense of humour. Imagine spending the rest of you life with a guy who is way too serious... No thanks.

Caring. A guy who doesn't mind buying you tampons if he knows you need them now.

bobalife · Answer

A lot of things. But the most is make me laugh & laugh with me, kindness & respectful, shows me he wanna get to know me for me, smart & passionate, or introspective.

Physically? My tops is a friendly big smile, muscular arms, or good style

muscularbumblebee · Answer

Depends if for hookup or for long term dating. Both body type and personality changes there though generally if hooking up he has to be super fit nothing else and if dating then fit is a plus but a little dad bod is ok

Personality wise if hooking up he still must be respectful but I don’t care how boring his uni degree is whereas if I’m dating a guy I’d rather a little inspiring or similar degree perhaps

Nobefore · Answer

I really feel sad for people who have so superficial about each other. Is he doing the job he loves, is he smiles often, can he live in the moment and can he speak with me truly when there is a problem that occurs between us? If he has all those I think that's man is attractive. No need muscled body if his eyes smile brightly or no need to pay me everything if we can talk about how broke we are and smile to word together.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

The sheer fact they are bigger than me. I constantly stare at my husband and I'm like samn your tall/long etc. I'm 5 ft2 he's 6 ft so practically everyone is bigger than me but still it's like wow and amazing and I love that factor.

natured · Answer

Clearly not this guy in the picture if we talk about "physical attraction" I like a fit body but not this Michelin muscle stiff pokemon.  Tall dark and handsome just like my Boo

baechu0575 · Answer

What attracts me the most is first his good relationship and communication with his family, how he communicates and talk with his family and friends. , secondly respectful and gentleman of course, third is his eyes and cute smile, wise and very intelligent, and also the pure kindness.

DollAlone · Answer

Loyalty is hot as hell. Sense of humor. Honesty. How much he is in to me. Affection. Attention. Sex appeal. Smile. The muscles in their backs. Strength

EastofEden · Answer

Attitude comes first, yk like if he's sweet, funny, understanding and stuff. But then recently I've noticed that whenever I look at a guy like dating-material, I focus on his fingers first, then hair and height and the attitude thing comes next. Lol I think I have hand fetish.

oxoxo-lover · Answer

-Energy/Confidence  -Charm -Voice -Any leadership qualities -Humor/Playfulness  -Intelligence

ceciliamrs222 · Answer

physically i like dark skin man skinny and tall (more than me 5’7) and about personality i like somebody who’s confident and funny

keniyaa · Answer

he gotta be goofy like me lol, playful, funny, smart knows when to be serious. Trustworthy, only has eyes for you.

nxxxxxxxxxxxa · Answer

Can I send you a private message of what kind of man I find to be attractive?

lanaxkeyz · Answer

A handsome black man in his mid 20’s whose athletic. Outside of that I’d want him to be independent, mature, focused, a good dad (if he is one) and compassionate. There’s a lot I left out but that’s the basics.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Personality, intelligence, studying a to get a higher education

Anonymous · Answer

Well, a sexy body like that doesn't hurt. That's what initially attracted me to my husband (TBH)

Hikymiky4466 · Answer

If he isn’t a homophobic, misogynistic, sexist, racist, ableist then im in loveeeeeee I swear. is that too much to ask?

rosierosie3 · Answer

His face, his personality, his body and good hygiene

Lillie_xo · Answer

Being a woman at least ! o (〃＾▽＾〃) o

PinkHamster · Answer

His personality and his athletic body 💕✨

JennBITx · Answer

Personality. I need an intelligent conversation

Alexsandra87 · Answer

A good sense humor and nice abs.

mickeygee · Answer

Chest hairy, beard

Nazgol · Answer

Looks , accent if any, charm, voice

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Money

sakthi07 · Answer

Smile, attitude , looks!

JosyJosy · Answer

His scent.

AngelLily · Answer

Personality

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