Girls, What attracts you ladies to a man? Is it looks, personality, body language, money? ?

[mrandersong]

I’ve always been told I’m handsome and I see it myself but it seems like this doesn’t equal attraction with woman. It seems like how you make her feel and your personality is more important.

[Anonymous]

For me it's body language or even some gestures for the first time to look if i look at him, with what i can guess something about him like what kind of person he must be... if i talk about the first sight , his smile and the eye contact that attracts me on the first sight... looks too a li'l bit but not that much, definitely not the topmost priority.. and it depends... it isn't like i find extremely handsome guys to be attractive only.. no it's not like that.. they can be average in looks but still be so much attractive... and after that... for me what actually matters a lot is his nature and his personality that what kind of a person he is in nature... i like respectful men or the decent ones. he should be a good human by heart most importantly.

[mandyfire98]

Looks, that includes how they groom, how they dress, the shale they're in. Charisma, chemistry, good personality, respectful, caring, loving.

[mrandersong]

So it’s not looks alone? I guess I get insecure because I’m really handsome and expect to attract woman off looks alone and that doesn’t happen most the time

[mandyfire98]

No it's a combo of thongs. Listen, looks do play a part. You have to like what you see but there are other things at play as well.

[TadBehaya]

Looks and confidence

[mrandersong]

Do you make the first moves or do you wait for the guy?

[TadBehaya]

I usually wait for him to make a move. I give signs like winking and smiling. Sometimes, I approach the guys as well

[mrandersong]

Wow, really? I never see woman approach guys? I’ve been approached twice in my whole life and I’m really handsome.