Do you guys struggle with women so much?

[Summeroflove]

If you want you can DM me lol.

[Saramad_Hill]

In person? I don't really meet women often enough for it to matter. I just assume it's a temporary meeting, or at best, friendship. I've given up on finding a partner because how rare it seems to be now. I'd rather at least enjoy my life a little during the apocalypse. No one will miss one random dude-- others can fill my spot. I don't really believe in the soulmates thing.

Online? I don't directly DM women, but if they've left a comment somewhere and I feel I have anything important or funny to add to it, I will do so. Again-- won't try and flirt with them. If they flirt, then I kinda just get weird and shit-talk myself until they lose interest. Still, there's something nice about the no pressure approach. I'm not trying to win anything. I'm not even playing the game. I try to make friends, and then I ghost them during my next mental health depression bedrot festival.

[HawkPerception]

I mean, I've had partners in the past, so I'm definitely capable of finding a partner, but I would say it's not easy for me. There are so many women in the west that are entitled and narcissistic. It's all "Me, me, me. What does a guy bring to the table?" but not asking what they themselves bring to the table.

All I want in a partner is someone who's kind to everyone around them, has similar views, interests (to an extent... doesn't have to have all the same ones), sense of humor, sexual compatibility, and actually cares about their appearance and physical fitness.

While there are women that fit that description, they seem to be exceptionally rare nowadays.

[Abbycado]

I guess I don’t. I apparently, given another opinion, make things hard right away.

Maybe @SueShe knows why I make it hard for guys. 🤔

[SueShe]

You may make things hard right away, I make them impossible.

Now, I may have misunderstood how you make things "hard" right away. My innocent mind has a difficult time understanding your post.

Make a drawing or send a picture to clarify 🤭

[Abbycado]

@SueShe the guy below said I’m not easy. I take that as a compliment. Then the asker had replied asking how I make things hard. I dunno. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[SueShe]

Yes, that is meant as a compliment. Don't worry too much. Why make life easy when you can make it harder?

[Summeroflove]

Lmao

[Summeroflove]

Being realistic. You’re probably not hard on the men you’re genuinely attracted to. But also aren’t going to waste someone’s time if you’re not into them.

Not being able to take no for a answer makes most people feel less attractive and glad they dodged a bullet

[Abbycado]

I’m not hard on them, nor waste time. You’re correct.

[Summeroflove]

That doesn’t make you hard then

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[bananathunder]

haha you know why you make things hard on guys :P

[Anonymous]

I struggle with myself and I'm a woman... does that count?

But really, we're not all that you know. You'll be fine.

[Summeroflove]

You’re not alone many people struggle with themselves.

But far as men talking to women. Just treat them like…. People. Because that’s what we all are

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. Enjoy life while it lasts. Be a good person and that radiance will be all the illumination you could ever need. Even if it doesn't light up anyone else for you, it will be your source of energy, your solace, your own hope and future.

I should take my own "advice" really

[Opinion Owner]

Not that I know enough to say this in confidence, just a view looking out the window

[Summeroflove]

Mmmhmm

[Anonymous]

I never had relationship, all of my loves were unrequited, so I'd say yes, no girl wants me :(

[Summeroflove]

DM men

[Opinion Owner]

Why would I DM men? I'm interested in women.

[Arcadian222]

Like I am struggling with @Abbycado. She isn't making it easy 🤣

[Abbycado]

Lol, what?

[Arcadian222]

@Abbycado exactly

[Summeroflove]

@Abbycado lol add your opinion on how you make it hard

[valentina4eva]

hmmm nopeee!!🤔 it’s deff the men i struggle with!!😂😅😅

[slatyb]

I don't have any trouble attracting them. I struggle to not get too involved too soon.

[genericname85]

nope. i chose not to xD fuck that. nobody can force you to struggle with women. so why do it? :D

[qwerty2469]

How can we struggle? You put your cock in them. Pat them on their ass and send them home in an Uber, never to speak again.

[raaz222]

Yes. Very much much much.

Below is the problem
Overthinking
Overthinking
Overthinking
overthinking

[Nikki1989]

Nope.

[Summeroflove]

Most the time they refuse to take even the most simple of advice. But many are surprised how easy it is to talk to people

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't struggle with women at all.

[Anonymous]

Supply and demand, there are too many men for the amount of women. Too much competition.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

No because you're a racist Maga!