If men are acting like women and that's a bad thing, wouldn't that be disrespectful towards women?

[chris_987]

people are saying that men are feminized now and they're lazy. But wouldn't that be inferring that Women have always been lazy

[DishLady]

The question sort of reads like folks are saying that ALL MEN are "acting like women" ... that they are "feminized" and lazy...

If guys were really starting to act as strong and patient as women have had to be for generations it would be a blessed day... Look at the sacrifices of Virgin Mary or the Blessed Draupadi or any zillions of examples that are out there today... and tell me how weak a woman is...

However I get that this isn't what you're pointing to. The cliche behind such claims is to indicate that men are "becoming the weaker sex"... which is horse shit.

There have ALWAYS BEEN lazy guys and gals. This is not a new thing.

There have also always been effeminate guys... No judgement. To each their own.

Whatever you mean by "feminized" guys is a mystery. You mean male feminists? They're sweet, actually. Very well intentioned, but some stuff a gal has got to get through on her own, just like some things a guy has to get through alone. (I suspect you meant "effeminate", though.)

[Screenwriter]

Might be an inference that would include the idea that women are assumed to be lazy, too.

However, "lazy" has never been a quality of femininity.

Ten common traits considered to be feminine are: Intuition, compassion, creativity, nurturing, affection, cooperation, communication, sensitivity, expression, and caring.

I would add industry to the above list. Women have long had to work hard to run homes, budget, raise and educate children.

Maybe rich women are lazy because they can hire people to do the former tasks. And there may be women seeking meal tickets and sugar daddies who are lazy.

Not in my family and not me. I come from a solid line of hard workers. Though I did have a lackadaisical grandmother on my dad's side. Not lazy, but not industrious.

[dustybiker2]

There's no good side to ignorant remarks. The bullet will penetrate the foot regardless.

[chris_987]

Is that a Confederate flag?

[dustybiker2]

Nope. American, hung in crisis.

[chris_987]

I'm not American so I don't know what you're talking about

[dustybiker2]

I am living in America. Hanging the flag upside down has always been a way of declaring a crisis of country.

[chris_987]

Good that you're so patriotic

[dustybiker2]

I am.

[Anonymous]

I believe the laziness in a generational thing not a gender thing

[WonderingManII]

That made me laugh!