Do I just do nothing?

[Anonymous]

I’m at work I already got rejected once and everytime that happens I just don’t try again im not the best. But a couple girls seem to give me looks my friend/ home girl told me don’t let one girl ruin it. It’s other ones I like but im just tired and don’t want someone else making me look stupid again. I’ve worked with a couple girls seen bunch of them around I just get annoyed because how do I know it won’t happen again. I guess I have one more in me but my confidence is so low after that one sat across from me I just didn’t really look at her. I kept my eyes on my phone the way she got up to go back to work was like she wanted me to say something but we all know what would have happened if I did most likely. I really don’t want to come off as being cocky or thinking I’m to good to talk to anyone but I have a valid reason why.. it’s just frustrating to me personally don’t want to be friends because I’m just single while they are having fun. I would like someone to is my point and being friends doesn’t do anything for me.

[Anonymous]

What’s the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. If your self esteem is super low, why risk doing the one you know could make it worse? Like you say you’ve got one rejection left in you, is it really that serious to date a woman at work? Which in my opinion is the other problem, you keep fishing in the same, small pond. There’s only so many times you can ask out a coworker before you start gaining a reputation and I’m sure you’d like to spare yourself the embarrassment of being gossiped about as that dude who asks all the single women out. Maybe you should take a break from all that, work on your self esteem, then when you’re ready to date try meeting a woman in a different environment or even online.

[Nikki1989]

Haven't you heard the saying “You don't shit where you eat!”

[Asker]

This job I don’t care for but I’ll take the advice anyway.

[Staximus]

Are you stupid or something? Don't shit in your own backyard. Don't fuck around with your co-workers. You want to find a girl, go somewhere else

[Asker]

Understand but don’t really care for this job not exactly something you want to keep long term.