Can I do anything else?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend that I was close to her , we were spending a lot of time together. After a month and half of meeting her almost everyday , I told her I like her that was 2 months ago , she didn’t give me a straight answer for a week and I had to talk to her to know that “for now “ she only sees me as a friend this is largely because I don’t have a lot of experience with women
For the past 2 I have been trying to move on , but my feelings are so strong. I think she is sending me mixed messages , some times she talks about a guy she saw that she liked and sometimes she says that she only makes friends with attractive guys because they will eventually date one of them. One time we went to a club and she was staring at me and teasing me with the song lyrics

today we went to a club and she danced with one guy and a lot of girls , and everyone was asking me if we were a couple because they want to dance with her , I think that My body language revealed how jealous I was
I know I don’t have right to be jealous but I can’t stop hurting because of that. I can’t stand the pain and I really think the only solution stay as far as possible from her

I want to tell her everything before I do that because I don’t think how much I liked her nor how. My friend is convincing me to stay as her friend but I can’t take it anymore

As I said I don’t have a lot of experience, so Is this decision make sense in any way or should I do something else?

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[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, this sounds like a super painful situation. I can tell you really care about this girl, but it seems like she's just not into you in the same way and is kinda messing with your feelings. As much as it's gonna suck, I think distancing yourself is the best thing to do for your own mental health and moving on. Some things I would consider:

- Talk to her one last time and tell her how you honestly feel about her. Get everything off your chest so you have closure. But make it clear you need space after.

- Don't try to stay friends right away. It'll only prolong the hurting if you still see her a lot. Give yourself proper time to mentally separate those feelings from her.

- Block/mute her on social media so you're not constantly seeing stuff that makes you jealous or brings back hope. Clean break is best.

- Hang with the boys, pick up a new hobby, focus on yourself for a while. Don't dwell alone with nothing to take your mind off her.

- It's gonna take time, but you'll get over it. In the future, don't waste time pining after someone who doesn't fully reciprocate your feelings.

Stand up for yourself. You deserve to be with someone who wants all of you back. Hit me up if you ever need to vent - we've all been there with unrequited crushes. You got this!

[DextroShade]

Being in the friend-zone is a massive L for you. Stop wasting your time on this bitch and find a girl who actually likes you.

[Tharithi]

Tell her u like and work together as a couple

[Asker]

What will make her change her mind in 2 months?
What are the signs?

If she really wants me as a close friend, I don’t want use our friendship as a way to blackmail my way into dating her

[Tharithi]

Huh? What’s wrong with u. How old are u both

[Asker]

I am 27 , she is 30
But she had much more experience in life and I was very introverted throughout my entire life