I met a guy and I told him I have a child he then said he has to think about it , how do I give him time, is it by not chatting him?

[Olas97]

[ohsheeT]

Time out. Time out time out. If you like the guy call him text him talk about anything else besides the choice he has to make.

He's a bug boy he can do two things at one time.

Ok let's be honest your going to go through this many times so let's get it straight. You are the boss. Your child comes first or any guy. Never forget that.

You don't need a boy that needs to think about things you need a man that's says Hey, what's up? You wanna go to dinner? You got a babysitter , I'll pay for it.

You are a man that understands your child comes first no matter what even over him. And he good with that. He knows your child.
And when you have a child you raise that child to become ten times better than you. And your child is your priority. Love is love. But th lovev. Of ur child comes first.


You will understand if you're having a conversation with him. Your child walks into the room and says mom mom mom And interrupt you. First you teach a child , you are having a conversation. The polite way to interrupt a conversation. And then say what. That's the type of guy you want in your life. Do not Compromise because you're lonely. There are five hundred billion men out there be Patient... Because your child is watching you and is learning every second of every minute Of every day who could be by the things they watch you do and say

[Zack-Bann]

You need to take away the pressure
Tell him you don’t expect anything from him and would rather date him for yourself
It’s just that the child will require your attention and he can’t be offended by that


As time goes on if he ends up getting close to you and your kid he will end up becoming a “father figure” organically

[Ariesman81]

Good advice. A woman who acknowledges her responsibility is a woman who gets it. So many women out there with the mentality of "We're a package deal". Cool... you can sit on the shelf and collect dust.

[Anonymous]

it means he's talking to other girls so i'd move on

[HusamRocks]

Saying he needs to think about it means in most cases it's a lost cause, you don't wanna waste your time waiting for his response, so continue your life and meet other people, if he came back you can continue from where you have stopped if you still interested.
Good luck 👍🏻

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You can't give time because he has already time to think when you're not around. So, don't give anything, just do what you want to do with him

[Cormac995]

No keep chatting with him just don't push him or bring it up again until he does.

[Anonymous]

Nobody wants to date single mothers. Men don't raise other men's abandoned mistakes.

[MzAsh]

There are plenty of men who do.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah, but they do.

[MasterKS]

some men dont like single mothers, so fool! I won't miss it.

[slatyb]

Forget him until he gets back to you. Date others.

[mrshooiser]

I wouldn't even wait. Find a single dad.

[In_Trance]

Give him about 2 hours