Why do people go on dating app n ldr for soulmate its doesn't make sense to me?

[Sam1133]

I mean bro no one likes you in real life
No one wants to be your soulmate in short distance that's why you're fuckin around dating apps?

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 c'mon dude, that's a little harsh.

It's the "drive-thru" mentality of today's society. There's nothing wrong with using datings apps so long as you have a uncompromised ego.😆 Because in general it's about as inconsistent, fleeting and uninvested as rest of society. As a guy you must understand that online dating is primarily just window shopping for most women. Most have no intention of meeting anyone.

My basic advice to any guy that uses it is

1. understand that the rules for online dating is inverse to real life dating. Never message the women first. Trust me on this. If a woman IS interested she WILL message you. F*** those women that say you need to message them something interesting. They just want you to entertain them. You're not thier dancing monkey.

2. Women DO NOT read you profile LEAVE IT BLANK. Most women in general create the man thier looking for in thier head. The only thing you're doing by posting anything in your profile is undoing that and convincing her NOT to message you.

3. You pics are PARAMOUNT. Now that doesn't me you have to look like Chris Hemsworth (though that wouldn't hurt😆). It just means that you are yelling a virtual story with your pics. If you have all selfie for example the story you might be conveying is "I have no friends and might be a serial killer".😆 My advice is have a wide variety of pics, camping, hiking, pics at the ballpark, pics at friendly gatherings, pics at concerts, maybe one of you in a suit. Just so she knows you own one and and are capable of shining up like a new penny.

Now that your fishing line is in the water, walk away. A watched pot never boils. And remember to take everything on a dating app with a grain of salt until you meet her in person. And chase any woman you meet there with a shot of penicillin. You'd be moon eyed to know the percentage of women on dating apps with STD's. Be safe my man.👍💯

[WonderingManII]

I never did a dating app, but for those reasons I have used online dating sites. Nobody wanted me on them either.

[HollyK21]

Accessibility plays a big role, in my opinion. Let’s say you don’t have much of a social life outside of work/school, so you aren’t going out to the regular places you’d meet someone like a bar, concert, venue, etc. Another example would be the environment you’re in, like if it’s a small town and you mainly see the same old faces because all that’s around is the local watering hole. I grew up in a town like that.

[Sam1133]

You have a point babe

[DishLady]

It doesn't make sense to A LOT of people. I only know ONE couple who married after meeting online and that's a stretch. I think they're only together bc babies keep popping out of her. It's like they're trying to repopulate earth all by themselves...

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I was shy and they helped me meet men i couldn't even image would be into me sexually but I met some wise people and did fine my soulmate on tinder of all place lol