No sleep overs after 4 months?

[ravenwolf]

If you were intimate with a woman for 4 months but still refused to let her sleep over what could that mean?

[Zack-Bann]

It’s very weird


I’ve never once asked anyone I slept with to leave just out of principle


And 4 months later it shouldn’t even be a discussion


Although my ex refused to sleep over or let me sleep at hers
Then again she dumped me after 4 months for no valid reason so she’s a poor example


My other ex was the polar opposite.
Never wanted to leave.
And if I’m being honest I never let her put her clothes back on to begin with so it’s partly my fault


You should have the conversation with him


Picture living in a world where people fuck like animals but can’t be bothered to have a quick heart to heart every now and then


You’re gonna be fine

[RHK36]

It means you are a human sex doll, he has a girlfriend/wife or he's doing this with multiple women. Are any of those good options because none will be positive for this girl.

[PeachyPie93]

He isn't serious, you are just a booty call.. A guy who has any sort of respect for you would want to cuddle and sleep together sometimes because men like that stuff too regardless of if he wants to date you or not.

[OneViewpoint]

It would mean he's getting what he wants and doesn't want more.

[integrale77]

Maybe it represents a level of commitment she is not ready for.

[jahaims]

He doesn't want just sex and takes his time

[ravenwolf]

We have had incredible sex and intimacy for 4 months straight.. also have sex on my period!

[Anonymous]

Could mean a lot of things. Some serious, some benign.

[hello4433]

That means she doesn't give a shit about you

[ravenwolf]

That's not true and it's a he.. I'm the woman in this story.. trying to be patient

[hello4433]

It's a dead end and deep down you know that as well. You are just not accepting it

[ravenwolf]

You are 26 and in the hookup generation kid.. you have no clue about real intimacy

[hello4433]

That's what you say to make yourself feel better. What's the use of being this old when you don't know what's right and what's wrong?

[Kelly6]

@ravenwolf 4 months is very long.

[In_Trance]

He's married

[ravenwolf]

Omfg... does anyone not read.. He's separated ( like over a year) divorce is almost done
She cheated if you all must know.. and his last ex cheated also so he's scared obviously... I feel like he doesn't want the kids to tell their mom he's seeing someone... so it's easier to just say we are housemates ( I live on the same property) he invited me to live here with my dogs..