Does this means I’m ugly or just unlovable? Does this make me a femcel?

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Does this mean I'm ugly or unattractive, or is there something wrong with me? I seem to attract rude, disrespectful guys, or guys who talk about harming themselves. I do block and ignore these guys, but it's really annoying. I also seem to only attract guys who are just interested in sex. Meanwhile, I see girls my age getting boyfriends, but I can’t get one. I am femcel?

The term "femcel" is an abbreviation for female involuntary celibate. It refers to women who desire romantic or sexual relationships but are unable to find them, despite their efforts

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Ok first of all NO. Your not ugly

According to your question well your words. In your question your beautiful

With a beautiful heart your kind and caring.

And by the way ugly only comes from the inside. So there is no way in the world you are ugly

And what was the word you used a femcil or something like that .. well the way you describe it makes you very lovable...

I think so many girls out there go through the same things as you

And if I'm going to be honest I have been those type of guys in a moment it's brought up to learn something about you not to keep it going to pursue having sex or whatever

And I can tell you why sometimes it happens. It's because we are all made of energy and when 2 energies connect. There is an overwhelming beautiful feeling that comes through you.

And when it happen to you and the guy at the same time it's unreal beautiful. Then add chemistry on top of it. Well let's just say you want it to happen if you have never experienced it before..

well your missing out on something that will teach you a lot about yourself and guys

Well I need to go back to your question and look up that word I really want to know what it means because I felt your energy the moment you were saying what it meant and I felt it deep

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

Femcel isn’t the same as incels

Femcels are usually bitter women who are fed up with dating and spit in the face of potential suitors then complain about being alone

Incels are smelly basement dwellers who are repulsive to women and refuse to do anything about it other than complain

No one is “unlovable” but you do need to build a positive outlook on life and radiate a positive energy

I say build because it’s deliberate work and no one can do it for you

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Are you only talking about connectiing online? Because if you're only working online, you have no ability to determine the quality of the people contacting you..

Why don't you join Meetups: Groups of people who gather together over common interests: Tennis, pickleball, volleyball, sailing, conversation, book clubs, gardening. The groups might meet monthly or sometimes more often, according to what their interests are.

In person you have more control over interacting with people and can turn down people you are not interested in or are mismatches because you've interacted with them in RL and it didn't work out.

No one who only reads a profile and chats with you has any idea of who you are without meeting you and that goes BOTH ways.

Relax and spend time with people your friends introduce you to or you've met in group settings where you're comfortable.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Another blue on a fake pink account🙄

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are asking about your appearance but did not post a picture. If you want good opinions, ask a candid question.

SotiCoto · Answer

You said you seem to attract rude, disrespectful guys... yet you're honestly asking if you're an involuntary celibate?
No. Like the vast majority of women you have options. You just don't like them. And like entirely far too many women, you don't understand the fundamental difference between options you don't like and literally NO options.

Staximus · Answer

The way you carry yourself, interact with people, and the people you give attention to will all affect who is attracted to you. You don't have to make these guys your boyfriend. Just hang out with them long enough to know if you want them around or not before getting involved with them sexually or romantically. It's not that hard.

capriVib · Answer

U're not a femcel u can still attract men. If u think u're a femcel, u could break free from that mindset even today.

sinestro23 · Answer

nowhere near enough info and no photo to even have an opinion.. that said most guys do value sex highly and don't wanna waste their time

HusamRocks · Answer

It does mean nothing, you haven't meet the one yet and your line meets with bad guys lines so far👍🏻

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Sometimes you just get a bad run of bad luck and meet multiple mean assholes in a day on here

slatyb · Answer

Everyone attracts those guys. Some let them stay.

Gaylordslav · Answer

you're probably ugly fat and depressed

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