What do you do when you miss someone but can’t/shouldn’t reach out to them?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Self control. Self control. Self control…. If you’re someone with empathy missing someone is normal. Even if they did you wrong in the end you still really cared for this person and it hurts. Especially if they seemed really good at first and then later shown their true colors.

However, you have dignity and self respect. You can still care for someone as a human being without putting yourself back in that situation again. You have a lot to offer don’t waste it on someone undeserving

[Summeroflove]

But then again I don’t know the situation. It may not be a romantic relationship though I assume it is based on putting it in dating.

This could be a friend or family member. Maybe you ended things on good terms maybe you both did one another wrong.

Just don’t. Use self control

[Asker]

True that, I’m not actually gonna reach out though but thanks for explaining it so well. You’re right, it belongs in the past now; both the good and the bad.

[Summeroflove]

You’re right.

[sinestro23]

find something productive to do.. I've literally never had this problem lol

[DishLady]

Just don't do it. Distract yourself with other activities.

[ohsheeT]

Well you sit down and think about the reason why you shouldn't or can't reach out to them... because there are no reason why you can't. Not unless there is someone else involved.


And if that's the case why would you want to be with this person. ..

[Anonymous]

Apparently this.

[Ariesman81]

Ugh... I feel ya! Stay strong B.

[Staximus]

You don't, don't be a dumbass